It is time for me to leave this place. My wife is dying from cancer and she is in the last few stages. She is currently in the hospital and may not be returning home. A few of you on here know her and/or may have spoken to her through emails or on the forum over the years as she has been a member of @Saddo before me.

This place has been a good diversion over the last couple of years. I have met and made a few friends here and have enjoyed our banter and some of the jokes.

@Gandalf you should have taken out the Forum Gay title, but after being a "cunt" for a year, some one else needed it more.

@Andre I hope some day I might run into you down south and have a few beers but if not, keep in the pipe and off the bottom.

@boozeboxer have a couple for me and don't let these old basters give you too much shit.

@Master Get some glasses son before you go blind looking at all the porn.


To anyone I might have over looked. Enjoy your selves and see ya later.

Ghost, I am really sorry to hear what you are going through. You must be having the hardest of times right now. It doesn't get any more serious than that and I find hard to find appropriate words, but needless to say my thoughts and wishes are with you both.

Try to stay strong and I hope to see you post again one day. My next beer will be to you both. All the best, miles.

So sorry to here the news bud. I can feel your pain, I have lost 2 members of my family in the last 2 years from cancer. My thoughts are with you and your family at this hard time. Hope ya pull through bud and see ya back on here at some time in the future

really really sorry to her that mate

I am crap at what to say in these situations but want you to know my thoughts with you and the family.

Like everyone else I do hope you return here one day - we will all be here

Sorry to hear it bro. Welcome down here anytime, if you feel like a break later on jump a plane.

Good luck.

Very sorry for your situation Ghost, you have my deepest sympathies

I just happened to stumble upon this thread and was stunned to read about your situation. One is always at a loss for words at times like these, but my heart goes out to you and your family. You're all in my prayers, and I pray that God grants you the strength to get through these trying times.

I'm sorry man. The hardest thing to do is watch one you love in pain. She'll draw strength from you and you in turn draw it from where you find it. You have a 'roomful' of people thinking of you and family bud.

Ghost we are here for you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

I am so blind from the porn, just love the babes, can't help myself. I think I am an addict.

I do not know what to say, except I will be thinking of you and we will be here if you ever should want to stop in and say hi.

Sad news mate. Best wishes to you and yours!!

Really sorry to hear about your wife, my deepest sympathies to you both

@Ghost , My wife (who's been the love of my life) has had serious life threatening illnesses the last 20 years, so i've got a good idea what you're going through. Best of luck to ya bro.

Always the first to post Happy Birthday threads, your contributions and opinions will be missed. May you be strong for your family and don't forget there will always be plenty of Saddo's ready to welcome you back here should you wish to pop back in at a future date even if the level of jokes and banter may not have progressed much beyond the playground.