Thread: What would you do?

Originally Posted by Master

Originally Posted by Andre

Originally Posted by Master

Saw him today but he was facing the other way.

He must clearly be a nutter like Mark TKO or mentally ill. So I am glad I did not confront him as I would have looked like a bully.

If you ever get bullied just hit on them, ask them out .
ruins their day completely and you win whatever happens. If they attack good if they dont and walk off in disgust good,its a win win.

So let me get this straight you ask the man out and if he attacks you then you should bum him? And everyone wins? Normally your advice is spot on but something has been lost in the translation.

Mate its a trick, you just say something like "Wow you are a real pretty thing eh? you want to come home with me is that your deal?" and smile.

If he says yes you start swearing at him calling him everything under the sun including the fact you thought he was a fag all along and hes just proved it to everyone. What Im saying is sometimes you have to turn the tide on some people so the attack comes in your time not their time. Im just pointing out there are number of ways to disarm someone.

Real heavy blokes are disgusted by a homosexual advance so if they are being angry it means they are pumping up their own emotions ready to take it one step further when they are ready to (if you back down) or look away.

So to use another tack on them disarms them, makes them stop the link between mind and emotion and they either attack right then (so you are ready for it and kick their legs out as they come, or they are as dumb as you hope and back off after yelling something stupid at you.

One way or the other, it will happen,thats why its a win win for you, Its now on your terms and its right now in your time and not theirs,then you are 100% ready. Get it? No surprise attacks.

There are many ways but dont ever turn your back.

You could ask them how much cash they have on them and you'll fight them for everything they have on them,You have to look at them in discust "even your fucking clothes and shoes Ill take the whole lot off you ,you dumb fuck!!! " ,,and smile at them like they have no idea. Because you will take it all.

This pulls the fuse out of a drunk who wants to just show off. A real fighter (who will not be mouthing off anyway) would like the idea and you say ok, well we go up here away from those cameras, he will look away to where you point, thats your time now and your decision which way you go you just earnt it.

Win win you either get to fight without all the bullshit or they realize you are no victim and move off.

The right thing to do is just ignore him as to not cause trouble and be baited by some loon. Talking and touching are two entirely differnt turning points in confrontation.

If I'm honest though I would have told him to fuck right off before I stuck a pedal in his scrubby ass and drug him around the block until he's just a stain. People who talk shit deserve to be treated like toilet paper.

I agree mate,to ignore is the real way,but you have to be on guard and keep them in your vision or if it happens you got some nasty ground to make up.

So long as you are fully prepared to drag him round the block as you say ,I think you would have the cool disposition to be able to know when or create the when.

Originally Posted by Andre

I agree mate,to ignore is the real way,but you have to be on guard and keep them in your vision or if it happens you got some nasty ground to make up.

So long as you are fully prepared to drag him round the block as you say ,I think you would have the cool disposition to be able to know when or create the when.

I think it really comes to leaving yourself options. Read the surroundings and individual but never fully show your hand. Once you accelerate a situation to peak based on anger, ego or ignorance there really is only one way back often ending in charges and scars. Rather I'd say keep them guessing with disarming quiet confidence and verbal Judo...but in the back of your head knowing full well you may have to resort to that primal mindset as last resort and go knuckle duster on someone. Confidence is an outstanding defense as long as its true

Originally Posted by Master

I was leaving the train station on my bike and some one said to me “oh that is my Bike”. I ignored him and he then said “You fu**in w**ker”

He was smaller and older than me, Drink in one hand, sitting down. He looked like a waster. There were a lot of people about.

I ignored him and went on my way but I was mad and felt I should have confronted him. When I calmed down I thought I did the best thing by ignoring him and make him look like a tit.

If I started trouble with him it could of got out of hand, it could have affected my job (cannot have a criminal record), and he could have targeted my bike.

What would have you honestly done in that situation?

I'm for the most part non confrontational, and the reason usually is, i've got far more to lose by confronting someone, especially if it's a piece of shit like the one you describe. Always remember that you've got a family that depends on you as well, this asshole might be hiding a gun, you never know. Discretion is the better part of valor, if I confront someone it's only because I have no other choice.