Thread: Beat this for a dilemma

I'm now single for the 1st time in 11 years and I'm fucking loving it !

My last relationship ended in Febuary ,she was a manipulator and I just tired of her shit to the point where I told her to fuck off,this after never having sworn at her .
It's like I've had this massive wart removed from the back of my neck or being released from prison .
as much as I love the girlies I don't love all the shit that goes with them the emotional baggage and jelousy , that typa thing !
I cant get away with saying it cos most of my mates are married or in long term relationships

I have a mate who's 28 married with 4 young kids , he works his bolocks off ( we work together )

His wife is a cunt

When they met she was massively in debt , my mate who I shall call agent Alpha 1 had just come out of a relationship with a proper proper proper cunt and had messed him up badly ! He'd hit the drink dramtiaclly ( partly after winning a crate of cider everynight in a nightclub compition) and was down on his haunches .


Alpha 1 is no angel , in fact the ginger twat will stick his dick into anything and I do mean anything ! Fat ,mentally ill ,slimy, Welsh-anything !

To cut a long story (relatively) short he's shat on his own doorstep!
He's fucked his brothers kids babysitter who I shall call 'Alpha slut' !

It's very very very bad not only does his brother ( one of my best mates ) know but everybiody in the immediate group of friends knows!
What's worse 1 of the group has tod his girlfriend so naturally enough it's spread like wildfire ( I was the last to know as usual )

The only one who doesnt know if Alpha1's wife !

This morning I went on facebook and under Alpha Slut's status it had a comment by Alpha1's wife !

Now the truth will get out , Alpha 1's wife is barely tolerated and she is gonna find out !
Should it be me who sends an anonymous email ?


I could list my reasons for and against, 1 against namely the kids, but the truth is like a timebomb and I really really want him to come to the V festival without her ! she fucking ruined the last one like she ruins everything she attends he is always different around her !

Should I add the straw that breaks the camels back ?

Congrats on been single - Lucky koont

Don't get involved in the other shit, let it come out on it's own

While your post was funny and I could see how you hate his wife, but dude, don't forget bros before hoes. or snitches get stitches. No way you should even consider telling her, that's just making problems for your friend which is not cool.

Mate have kinda been in the same boat, got a mate whos only 20 whos getting married to a bitch whos cheated on him twice. He asked me if he should break up with her, i told him it was not my decision and if he loves her then its up to him. Because i wont be the guy that told him to throw her away and have him depressed because of it. At the end of the day, she might be a bitch but if she makes him happy then not your place to do anything.

Originally Posted by snakey

Mate have kinda been in the same boat, got a mate whos only 20 whos getting married to a bitch whos cheated on him twice. He asked me if he should break up with her, i told him it was not my decision and if he loves her then its up to him. Because i wont be the guy that told him to throw her away and have him depressed because of it. At the end of the day, she might be a bitch but if she makes him happy then not your place to do anything.

Dunno about that one fella. If any of my mates bird's were cheating on them I would tell them and if they still wanted to marry the bird, I'd beat them to death

Originally Posted by BIG H

Originally Posted by snakey

Mate have kinda been in the same boat, got a mate whos only 20 whos getting married to a bitch whos cheated on him twice. He asked me if he should break up with her, i told him it was not my decision and if he loves her then its up to him. Because i wont be the guy that told him to throw her away and have him depressed because of it. At the end of the day, she might be a bitch but if she makes him happy then not your place to do anything.

Dunno about that one fella. If any of my mates bird's were cheating on them I would tell them and if they still wanted to marry the bird, I'd beat them to death

me too H. Dick, let it ride mate.

Originally Posted by BIG H

Originally Posted by snakey

Mate have kinda been in the same boat, got a mate whos only 20 whos getting married to a bitch whos cheated on him twice. He asked me if he should break up with her, i told him it was not my decision and if he loves her then its up to him. Because i wont be the guy that told him to throw her away and have him depressed because of it. At the end of the day, she might be a bitch but if she makes him happy then not your place to do anything.

Dunno about that one fella. If any of my mates bird's were cheating on them I would tell them and if they still wanted to marry the bird, I'd beat them to death

What would you do if you were the mate that did the bird??


Done it once and not proud of it at all... Luckily it was kept secret... She was a really great friend though.. best i've had, and had to give her up after that because it was to awkward as the guy was one of my good friends since I was a kid but he turned into a bit of a douche for a few years before I hooked up with his girl... The girl actually really loved me for like a year while I had a girlfriend and she was single, then as soon as I broke up with my girlfriend, pretty much the exact same time she got together with my guy friend, so timing was off, but it was like it was always going to happen at some time.....
They now have a kid and are all good and I don't think the fact I slept with her has affected them and it would be terrible for him to find out and break it off with her.......

Sometimes people just make mistakes, or need to get something out of their system... You only live once on this earth, so I think the more experiences you have the better... I absolutely believe in being loyal to people and being honest, but if something like that happens, that's just life...

Anyway congrats on being single.. Everyone knows my situation with my girl and i'd probably feel the same if I was let out of the prison of relationship...

May I suggest looking up a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss..... Read it.. You'll get the absolute most out of your single life and ensure you get a top flight girl next time..

Originally Posted by BIG H

Originally Posted by snakey

Mate have kinda been in the same boat, got a mate whos only 20 whos getting married to a bitch whos cheated on him twice. He asked me if he should break up with her, i told him it was not my decision and if he loves her then its up to him. Because i wont be the guy that told him to throw her away and have him depressed because of it. At the end of the day, she might be a bitch but if she makes him happy then not your place to do anything.

Dunno about that one fella. If any of my mates bird's were cheating on them I would tell them and if they still wanted to marry the bird, I'd beat them to death

Yeah well he knows that shes cheated on him, shes admitted to it. But hes one of those blokes who hits depression really easily and i could only imagine how bad he would be if he broke up with her so it wont be me telling him to break it off