Thread: Has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

Originally Posted by miles

I think my worst example of this was years ago when I was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but I realised she was a bit weird when she started trying to explain the scars on her wrists and her unhappy life. We hung out for a while and obviously I was young and pretty at the time and she was kind of falling for me. But me being me, I realised that this was not going to be anything wonderful and so I told her I only wanted to be friends. She was just too weird. She was then telling me that if I didn't want anything more then we could just be sex partners. Of course, being unlike Bilbo, I was not impressed. No way!

I thought that was ther end, but then she enrolled in my adult English class and freaked the hell out of me. She came with her friend and stayed for two months. Her friend looked at me like I was the devil the entire time. At the end of the two months she stayed behind after class and told me that we had to talk. I didn't want to but reluctanctly agreed. We met and immediately she was telling me that she just wanted sex again, that pissed me off so I had to leave.

I saw her a few months later in the same bar while drinking with friends, but this time she just left. Phew.

So my question of the day....has anyone ever become obsessed with you?

100% uphill gardener

So you're dating a bird who is begging you for sex.....this pissed you off.

Clearly everyone on here will have reacted exactly as you did.

Obviously Bilbo is quite obsessed with me too, but believe it or not, he has never asked me for sex. So, I'm kind of okay with him.

Originally Posted by Fenster

So you're dating a bird who is begging you for sex.....this pissed you off.

Clearly everyone on here will have reacted exactly as you did.

Well, not now. But a long time ago, I have been compiling notes in an autobiographical way and so I thought I would start this topic as I thought it was kind of funny.

It really did piss me off because she was quite mental. I mean she liked me in a way that was freaky. I seem to attract all the weird women and this was no exception. The cut wrists and the talk of a former boyfriend that met someone from Japan etc. Just too much for a 23 year old which is what I was. I couldn't just sleep with her or help her practice sex. I had to escape and to be fair I was quite lucky in those days, so didn't need that kind of baggage.

But apparently after getting rid of her she shagged some other English guy who people said was my doppelganger, so good for her. But he told me she was weird too and wouldn't meet her again.

Originally Posted by miles

i think my worst example of this was years ago when i was quite free and single. I started dating this woman who seemed quite nice, but i realised she was a bit weird

pot.........kettle.....black.........!!!!!!!!!!!!! !

I think the "bordering on self-parody" factor was a little strong with this one.

Closet bender, etc (is it bender?). Poof, etc.

uphill gardener, council gritter.

Seriously, stop drinking Miles.

People get obsessed with me all the time and it is frustrating really, but on the whole I always hold the moral ground and don't let the stalkers take over me. But those women and Bilbo can be tough.

Originally Posted by miles

People get obsessed with me all the time and it is frustrating really, but on the whole I always hold the moral ground and don't let the stalkers take over me. But those women and Bilbo can be tough.

I heard Koreans were obsessed with white people, especially white males. You must be a pussy magnet over there.

for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.

Originally Posted by Howlin Mad Missy

for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.

Hello again Missy. Finally found you! Its like you're are ignoring me! Whats this thread about?

Originally Posted by ryanman

Originally Posted by Howlin Mad Missy

for god's sake Miles. Don't twist this shit round. I never went out with you or wanted to have sex with you. You wouldn't leave ME alone which is why I had to leave Korea.

Hello again Missy. Finally found you! Its like you're are ignoring me! Whats this thread about?

Argh. God damnit. Every where I go!

They fall like dominoes, dominoes....

At least she wasn't Jewish eh miles


Yeah its a right of passage as a man to have at least one fatal attraction.

A chick who I took out a few times,felt close to, but took it real slow,didnt even kiss her, not even once, named her son after me after she had a one nighter over seas with some German dude a year later. Close escape.