Re: This time next week....
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Originally Posted by
Dizaster
I'll be here posting about my day of adventures out talking to strange women....
They day is closing in fast.. I've given up thinking of what i'm going to say and all the stuff i've learnt intellectually about gaming girls.. I was originally worried that I wouldn't be able to remember the million things that help when you approach a girl, but then I figured it would probably ruin the interaction if I was actually even trying to remember everything. So i've decided to just -
1) Concentrate on being completely relaxed and emptying my head.
2) Getting into a good happy state that makes it just seem natural that I would be talking to a strange girl..
Hopefully just only having to worry about those 2 things will allow everything to go as good as it possibly can, and trust that my subconcious will do all the remembering for me, and that if i'm relaxed everything will just come out naturally..
I'm also totally shitting myself in a way... I still can't get it through me that a guy approaching a strange girl is not going to end in a poor interaction at best,but more likely a mortified women who's secretly dialing 911 on her mobile phone in her pocket.. It'll really help me if the guy who is taking me out can approach a few women first and prove to my own eyes that not only can a guy approach a strange women and just start talking to her out of the blue, but that the girls will actually respond positively, and maybe even like it...
It's all puzzling right now and my identity just doesn't even come close to fitting with a person who is going to do what i'm hoping I can do next week...
I feel like it's my first day of highschool or something coming up...
If you get a strange bird in bed then piss and shit all over her
Re: This time next week....
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Dizaster
I'll be here posting about my day of adventures out talking to strange women....
They day is closing in fast.. I've given up thinking of what i'm going to say and all the stuff i've learnt intellectually about gaming girls.. I was originally worried that I wouldn't be able to remember the million things that help when you approach a girl, but then I figured it would probably ruin the interaction if I was actually even trying to remember everything. So i've decided to just -
1) Concentrate on being completely relaxed and emptying my head.
2) Getting into a good happy state that makes it just seem natural that I would be talking to a strange girl..
Hopefully just only having to worry about those 2 things will allow everything to go as good as it possibly can, and trust that my subconcious will do all the remembering for me, and that if i'm relaxed everything will just come out naturally..
I'm also totally shitting myself in a way... I still can't get it through me that a guy approaching a strange girl is not going to end in a poor interaction at best,but more likely a mortified women who's secretly dialing 911 on her mobile phone in her pocket.. It'll really help me if the guy who is taking me out can approach a few women first and prove to my own eyes that not only can a guy approach a strange women and just start talking to her out of the blue, but that the girls will actually respond positively, and maybe even like it...
It's all puzzling right now and my identity just doesn't even come close to fitting with a person who is going to do what i'm hoping I can do next week...
I feel like it's my first day of highschool or something coming up...
Alright they bud!What is your exact goal on this subject?I mean are you aiming to chat and get a date with these women or are you just aiming to have a geniune chat with them:-\??
God women are a fanstaic species..............but my god are their confusing!!!!!
Anyhow good luck on your mission mate:army:
Re: This time next week....
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Originally Posted by
yvonne
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Originally Posted by
Dizaster
I'll be here posting about my day of adventures out talking to strange women....
They day is closing in fast.. I've given up thinking of what i'm going to say and all the stuff i've learnt intellectually about gaming girls.. I was originally worried that I wouldn't be able to remember the million things that help when you approach a girl, but then I figured it would probably ruin the interaction if I was actually even trying to remember everything. So i've decided to just -
1) Concentrate on being completely relaxed and emptying my head.
2) Getting into a good happy state that makes it just seem natural that I would be talking to a strange girl..
Hopefully just only having to worry about those 2 things will allow everything to go as good as it possibly can, and trust that my subconcious will do all the remembering for me, and that if i'm relaxed everything will just come out naturally..
I'm also totally shitting myself in a way... I still can't get it through me that a guy approaching a strange girl is not going to end in a poor interaction at best,but more likely a mortified women who's secretly dialing 911 on her mobile phone in her pocket.. It'll really help me if the guy who is taking me out can approach a few women first and prove to my own eyes that not only can a guy approach a strange women and just start talking to her out of the blue, but that the girls will actually respond positively, and maybe even like it...
It's all puzzling right now and my identity just doesn't even come close to fitting with a person who is going to do what i'm hoping I can do next week...
I feel like it's my first day of highschool or something coming up...
Alright they bud!What is your exact goal on this subject?I mean are you aiming to chat and get a date with these women or are you just aiming to have a geniune chat with them:-\??
God women are a fanstaic species..............but my god are their confusing!!!!!
Anyhow good luck on your mission mate:army:
My aim is to force myself out of my comfort zone and prove a lot of stuff to myself. Like that I am myself capabable of starting conversations with strangers etc. It's really about stretching myself, and as you said, Women are damn confusing and a real challenge... And that part of my life has always been a bit iffy. I can't communicate with women as well as I would like... I mean once I get to know people it's all good, but I figure the only way to improve that is to push the comfort zone so that I can expand what i'm capable of.
I'm not really going out expecting to get any phone numbers or dates or anything... I suppose though that I need to set myself at least some purpose so that I at least have a reason to be talking to the girls.. But aside from that, at the moment it's just for personal growth and to get an area handled that i've neglected..
And to have a bunch of fun as well for my holidays, instead of laying around playing PS3 and drinking every night, and going back to work even more of a shadow of myself than I am now...
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Goodluck bro and remember what i told told you :cool:
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Get drunk because girls are usually not that interesting. In fact they are shallow vindicative cows.
Re: This time next week....
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Originally Posted by
Plopeater
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Originally Posted by
Dizaster
I'll be here posting about my day of adventures out talking to strange women....
They day is closing in fast.. I've given up thinking of what i'm going to say and all the stuff i've learnt intellectually about gaming girls.. I was originally worried that I wouldn't be able to remember the million things that help when you approach a girl, but then I figured it would probably ruin the interaction if I was actually even trying to remember everything. So i've decided to just -
1) Concentrate on being completely relaxed and emptying my head.
2) Getting into a good happy state that makes it just seem natural that I would be talking to a strange girl..
Hopefully just only having to worry about those 2 things will allow everything to go as good as it possibly can, and trust that my subconcious will do all the remembering for me, and that if i'm relaxed everything will just come out naturally..
I'm also totally shitting myself in a way... I still can't get it through me that a guy approaching a strange girl is not going to end in a poor interaction at best,but more likely a mortified women who's secretly dialing 911 on her mobile phone in her pocket.. It'll really help me if the guy who is taking me out can approach a few women first and prove to my own eyes that not only can a guy approach a strange women and just start talking to her out of the blue, but that the girls will actually respond positively, and maybe even like it...
It's all puzzling right now and my identity just doesn't even come close to fitting with a person who is going to do what i'm hoping I can do next week...
I feel like it's my first day of highschool or something coming up...
If you get a strange bird in bed then piss and shit all over her
wtf. ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Re: This time next week....
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Originally Posted by
kingfrnk
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Originally Posted by
Plopeater
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Originally Posted by
Dizaster
I'll be here posting about my day of adventures out talking to strange women....
They day is closing in fast.. I've given up thinking of what i'm going to say and all the stuff i've learnt intellectually about gaming girls.. I was originally worried that I wouldn't be able to remember the million things that help when you approach a girl, but then I figured it would probably ruin the interaction if I was actually even trying to remember everything. So i've decided to just -
1) Concentrate on being completely relaxed and emptying my head.
2) Getting into a good happy state that makes it just seem natural that I would be talking to a strange girl..
Hopefully just only having to worry about those 2 things will allow everything to go as good as it possibly can, and trust that my subconcious will do all the remembering for me, and that if i'm relaxed everything will just come out naturally..
I'm also totally shitting myself in a way... I still can't get it through me that a guy approaching a strange girl is not going to end in a poor interaction at best,but more likely a mortified women who's secretly dialing 911 on her mobile phone in her pocket.. It'll really help me if the guy who is taking me out can approach a few women first and prove to my own eyes that not only can a guy approach a strange women and just start talking to her out of the blue, but that the girls will actually respond positively, and maybe even like it...
It's all puzzling right now and my identity just doesn't even come close to fitting with a person who is going to do what i'm hoping I can do next week...
I feel like it's my first day of highschool or something coming up...
If you get a strange bird in bed then piss and shit all over her
wtf. ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww
LOL you said it..
Anyway there has been recent developments that have pushed back the start date for my mission for one day.. My girlfriend had an appointment in the morning before work that I was going to take her to before heading out, but she's put in to take a day off that day... Which is kind of good because I was kind of wanting to really just relax the first day of my holidays, and I sort of wasn't looking forward to getting up on Monday the same way I would get up for work... But now I can totally relax and use that day to let it soak in that I AM on holidays, and then my mission can start fresh the next day.
I just hope the guy who was going to take me out is still available on Tuesday because i'd had him book for Monday for the last month, and he's one of the prominent guys on this other forum and supposedly is pretty great with women.. So even just watching him work was something i'm looking forward too...
