Originally Posted by
Bilbo
I'm probably not the best person to give advice, but in your shoes I would now be eyeing up potential alternatives, idieally some girl who is already in a relationship, not unhappy enough to leave, but miserable enough to want to fuck me.
I'd set that up and say goodbye to the nagging girl, then enjoy a few weeks with the fill in bird until I found somebody else to replace her with once her guilt got too much for her.
Actually your ex might by then be available for that role and you can take her back, but now with you holding all the cards and her relegated to the role of fuck buddy. Then it's no longer your obligation to console her on the phone.
Hope it works it out.