Woman Troubles

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Originally Posted by gogs67

I sense a lot of bitterness on this thread from all the male contributers!
MESSAGE...............just cos you feel like you've been fucked over in the past - GET OVER IT!Every one is different,no need to treat every woman like it's a competition to see who's got the most control.
But i suppose,coming onto a boxing forum to ask for relationship advice is about as well advised as Pete Townsend using the net for 'research'!

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It's not pure bitterness, it's reality. Most people will seek other options when they get the urge, it's human nature. Saying ok I'm over it now does absolutely nothing, it needs to be analyzed so you understand why it happend. It's easier to sit back and sharpshoot with Pete Townsend jokes than actually say something that helps the guy. Is there some bitterness? Of course, you can't up and strangle the little tramp when she does shit like this, if you could none of this would be an issue.

Never thought I'd say this but theres one thing about being gay thats totally superior to being hetero..... You can throw down with your spouse and it's an even match ;)

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Originally Posted by BIG H

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Originally Posted by Missy

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Originally Posted by raleights

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Remember 99% of all women are about themselves, the only way to counter this is to be 100% about yourself.

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Most men are.

Stop acting like women are bitches. Treat us better and we won't be tempted by guys who use the ploy of listening to us to get us in to bed.

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It's pretty sad, but from my experience treating a woman "right" (which I always have) usually end up with the woman getting bored with you and starting the "he's too nice" crap

Women (most) like bad boys and bad boys will tend to treat them like sh1t - sad but true!!

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You're kinda right but you shouldn't lower you're behaviour to that of the average bloke who acts like a total cunt just to get a shag!
You'd be letting yourself down IMO and also probably missing out on the chance of meeting someone you want to be with!

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Originally Posted by BIG H

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Originally Posted by Missy

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Originally Posted by raleights

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Remember 99% of all women are about themselves, the only way to counter this is to be 100% about yourself.

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Most men are.

Stop acting like women are bitches. Treat us better and we won't be tempted by guys who use the ploy of listening to us to get us in to bed.

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It's pretty sad, but from my experience treating a woman "right" (which I always have) usually end up with the woman getting bored with you and starting the "he's too nice" crap

Women (most) like bad boys and bad boys will tend to treat them like sh1t - sad but true!!

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BIG H is exactly right, doesn't matter how hard you try to do the right thing, usually you get shit on. You really think I draw my opinion from treating a woman like dirt? No it's from treating them like gold and in return being treated like garbage. Don't get me wrong, theres definately some cool women out there who've been fucked over in their own right that share this same point of view, I just think Missy and Starr havn't been through those bad times yet otherwise they wouldn't trust people to the extent they claim to. Who knows maybe they have and just don't want to accept trusting another person is fuckin insane O0

Sad story Sobo, sorry to hear about it.
You tried handling it how the ladies on the board suggested and it didn't work, now do as the guys say, try and do her one more time and then end it as cruelly as possibble, and FFS DONT STALK HER just try and forget about her.

Much too much sensitivity and hand-wringing going on here.

SOBO - you should have dumped her, mate. Anyway, if you've worn that one out now, go and get another.

Head up, get on with it, and - sorry - but don't expect any pity, she's been playing you like a fiddle.

well, the ship is sunk!

i couldnt take it anymore, so I went home from work, and drove over, and basicaly the enevitable,
she wanted to take a break, basically that guy had called her like 10 times since last thursday, (she didnt tell me that until today) basically we agreed that we got bored of each other, and still want to be friends etc. we both agreed if its meant to happen, it will, if not, it wont. It wasn't as bad as I thoguth, I mean i saw it coming right, so i guess i was prepared for it,

any who knows, she switched achools for me,and so she;ll be at my school next year, and we never know, but one thing is for sure, if anything happens with her and this guy i will NOT be taking her back, right now I guess i can just live my life the way I want, not worry bout her, hopefully "gain some more experience" and then we will see what happens!

THanks for all the advice, and thoughts!

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Originally Posted by SOBO

well, the ship is sunk!

i couldnt take it anymore, so I went home from work, and drove over, and basicaly the enevitable,
she wanted to take a break, basically that guy had called her like 10 times since last thursday, (she didnt tell me that until today) basically we agreed that we got bored of each other, and still want to be friends etc. we both agreed if its meant to happen, it will, if not, it wont. It wasn't as bad as I thoguth, I mean i saw it coming right, so i guess i was prepared for it,

any who knows, she switched achools for me,and so she;ll be at my school next year, and we never know, but one thing is for sure, if anything happens with her and this guy i will NOT be taking her back, right now I guess i can just live my life the way I want, not worry bout her, hopefully "gain some more experience" and then we will see what happens!

THanks for all the advice, and thoughts!

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Good luck m8

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Originally Posted by gogs67

I sense a lot of bitterness on this thread from all the male contributers!
MESSAGE...............just cos you feel like you've been fucked over in the past - GET OVER IT!Every one is different,no need to treat every woman like it's a competition to see who's got the most control.
But i suppose,coming onto a boxing forum to ask for relationship advice is about as well advised as Pete Townsend using the net for 'research'!

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:lolhaha:
Raliegh should get on his bike for calling Missy a tramp >:mad































She's a slag ;D

Bah when did I call her a tramp :(

Don't think I even know what a slag is


Sorry again SOBO, getting bored in a relationship is common and they end often because of it. If you guys manage to pick up the pieces you know how much you can trust her now (not much). So if anything happends again you're prepared, hope it all goes well.

btw im still here if you need advice on how to handle this other chump she's been talking to ;D

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Originally Posted by raleights

Missy is a two-timing tramp. You definately gotta end it before she does bro, otherwise you're gonna feel really like a loser. But you're not, this is just a bump in the road and eventually you'll look back on it and think about how this one experience made you so much tougher. Noone will ever be able to toy with your heart and emotions like that again, your wise to it now. Like I said just work on getting back to a normal mindset, read some Tony Robbins books or something. She may not be intentionally trying to hurt you, but she's so selfish it's not even crossing her mind. And that is what you need to focus on, how much of a selfish person she is. Now it's your turn to be selfish - bang her once more and tell her to get the hell out. Be a total prick with how you go about it, letting her know just how you feel will lift alot of that anxiety and maybe even have her wanting more (some women are freaky like that). Of course if you want to exact revenge on the other guy, I'm also here for ya, plenty of evil thoughts running through my mind at the moment (and her too). Remember you're innocent here, theres nothing you did wrong and if she tries turning it around on you like Missy did, (women are famous for it) just go off, scream yell let it all come the F*** out, say you're gonna give this guy a piece of your mind (even if you don't it'll have her thinking). It's gonna hurt alot more if you internalize all this.

Remember 99% of all women are about themselves, the only way to counter this is to be 100% about yourself. Sorry SOBO, it's a shitty hand to be dealt but like I said you'll be alot stronger from it.

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Busted ;D

damn I did, fuckin tramp

And smashup, given the opportunity you'd suck Joe Calzaghe's dick - true story :splurt:

gogs are you a girl? you sound like one.

SOBO do not be friends!! Dont accept calls or anything. She is dead to you

you have to cut her off completely from your life. Seeing her around will prolong things. Change schools for gods sake

justy got shit faced, it was good, i plan on it for the weekend, the les i see her thrte better, if its meant to be she wont fuck around with the other guy, if she does, its not, and i can go on with my life!

thanks gain,

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Originally Posted by SOBO

justy got shit faced, it was good, i plan on it for the weekend, the les i see her thrte better, if its meant to be she wont fuck around with the other guy, if she does, its not, and i can go on with my life!

thanks gain,

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False empowerment is the first clue you're doing something wrong ;)