Originally Posted by
Sharla
I can see what you mean. It is frustrating training you're ass off only to have politics limit you.
Even in my last gym where coach was always unsure of whether or not he wanted to continue but rather than making a decision and telling us and allowing us to continue our training else where he just left us all hanging.
We trained for no competition most of the nice, very little notice when he suddenly did decide to put someone in.
He didn't want to be there but told us if we left we would be traitors and other gyms wouldn't take us in because were his fighters etc.
Really he should have announced his decision like you and let us all continue rather than leaving us hanging which i guess is what these other guys are doing in the set up of this fight show.
A similar situation. A friend of mine was offered a job after finishing her PhD scholarship. She's still writing up and rather than her work in another area her supervisor told her to turn down the job and he'd pay her to work on things related to her project.
When she's done that and the time actually comes to give her some work he wanted to force her to finish writing before he'd give her anything.
She had bills to pay and forfieted a secure position just to be blackmailed by him!
Ironically the CEO knew about this but just let it go. No action was taken at all.
She's now working a couple of days a week in a low paid postion, not really scraping through.
People who try to put themselves in a position where you depend on them and then refuse to let you move forward are power tripping in a bad way!