Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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jabvargas24
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El Kabong
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jabvargas24
hahaha.. We are both still in school together so i think trying to avoid her completely will be difficult. And shes one of the few ppl i can still trust with anything..
You don't have to be hostile towards her, although you may feel like doing that. Just treat her like a casual aquaintance....don't share too much with her, don't show emotion to her, just basically become disinterested in who she is, what she does, how she feels, etc.......she'll either get the message and move on or she could become even more interested in you which could be a problem because she'll only break your heart again...but you could ride that out while it lasts, just don't get booty blind and figure that relationship is something that it isn't
If you two remain "Just friends" resentment will rear it's head...either she'll cockblock you or you'll get jealous of her seeing someone, but either way it's just going to build up to where you two argue all the time and it's no good for anyone.
Women are fickle, they want what they can't have and they don't want what they can have, but they do not NOT want what they can have.....if you can get that. They are basically all bat shit crazy (some more than others) and guys are just along for the ride.
That may be some of the best advice i've ever heard.
I agree. What MAg do you write for Lyle :cool: ?
I'd be saying to her, "Now I have had the space to think, Its probably for the best, think maybe we were both in it for all the wrong reasons.
Move on for real bro, once a cheat 99% of the time = always a cheat. And you deserve better.
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I don't write for any mag, I just have experience in dealing with this kind of thing. I personally have gone through it, I've had friends go through it and I've just seen that getting all sad and depressed over it doesn't accomplish a damn thing, it closes you off to new people, it makes you not fun to be around, and it creates a very bad vibe around you....believe it or not (I know Andre will be on board for this ;) ) people are either givers of energy or takers of energy, people either make you happy when you're around them or make you feel like you've been drained of all happy feelings...and you have to notice what you're putting out there......chicks don't dig "Donny Downer", the dude that's all sullen and sad, unless they are those goth/emo girls and they are usually closet lesbians or just are psychologically and emotionally at a point where you don't want to mess with them.
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*Opens popcorn and awaits VD's advice*
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
Get off with her best mate.
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Men who cheat should have their willy chopped off and women who cheat should have their nether regions sewn up never to be used again. Cheating is a nasty business. I'm probably closer to sharia law than any Western concept of justice on an issue such as this.
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
And yes, I like ICB's advice too. :p
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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miles
And yes, I like ICB's advice too. :p
Yes clearly the best advice.
But nah seriously i mean i don't really see the problem here, he's pretty young isn't he ? still in school ? so a girl he's been seeing at school has cheated on him.
If her best mates fit, just give her one. If not has she got any sisters ? then give them a portion. Or just totally forget about her and move on to the next one.
Its not like your without choice your at school, its basically a pick em mix. Choose one to taste and if you don't like it, spit it out and try the next one.
Get stuck in there lad.
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Soo Ive decided to move on and talk to this new girl she great.Cudnt ask for more but yet I still keep thinkn bout my ex.
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miles
Men who cheat should have their willy chopped off and women who cheat should have their nether regions sewn up never to be used again. Cheating is a nasty business. I'm probably closer to sharia law than any Western concept of justice on an issue such as this.
Fun fact. Sharia Law basically translates to Law Law, as Sharia is a type of Law that is based on the Qur'an. You can have that one :cool:
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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ICB
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miles
And yes, I like ICB's advice too. :p
Yes clearly the best advice.
But nah seriously i mean i don't really see the problem here, he's pretty young isn't he ? still in school ? so a girl he's been seeing at school has cheated on him.
If her best mates fit, just give her one. If not has she got any sisters ? then give them a portion. Or just totally forget about her and move on to the next one.
Its not like your without choice your at school, its basically a pick em mix. Choose one to taste and if you don't like it, spit it out and try the next one.
Get stuck in there lad.
Fuck me Ice, you've changed your tune. ;D
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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Conrad
Been there too dude! Probably the lowest I have ever been in my life was after I found out my ex was fucking somebody else. I'm big enough to admit that it took me a good year to get over her. She ripped me inside out as I thought she was 'the one'
But you know time really is the great healer and I can't stress enough to have absolutely ZERO contact with her. Out of sight is out of mind. Every text or phone call just prolongs the agony.
Also get laid elsewhere as much as possible!! I promise you this will make you feel better or at the very least take your mind off her for the time being. Before you know it you'll meet somebody else and all the hurt she caused will just be a memory!
I couldn't imagine it at the time but what my ex did to me turned out to be the best thing that ever happened. I ended up with a girl 10 times as hot and better than my ex in every single department. ;D
That is top advice imo
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some of you c*nts need to man up
roar one up her best mates shitter, film the whole thing and then send it to her facebook account
;D;D
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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ICB
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miles
And yes, I like ICB's advice too. :p
Yes clearly the best advice.
But nah seriously i mean i don't really see the problem here, he's pretty young isn't he ? still in school ? so a girl he's been seeing at school has cheated on him.
If her best mates fit, just give her one. If not has she got any sisters ? then give them a portion. Or just totally forget about her and move on to the next one.
Its not like your without choice your at school, its basically a pick em mix. Choose one to taste and if you don't like it, spit it out and try the next one.
Get stuck in there lad.
Suddenly likes football, gone thorugh some kind of sexual awakening?
Alright who the fuck are you?
Re: Getting cheated on!!!
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El Kabong
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miles
Men who cheat should have their willy chopped off and women who cheat should have their nether regions sewn up never to be used again. Cheating is a nasty business. I'm probably closer to sharia law than any Western concept of justice on an issue such as this.
They are still in school miles, kids that age are up to their eyeballs in hormones and they make dumb decisions all the time. There's no reason to go medieval on anyone, you barbarian.
Part of being a man, is not allowing your emotions to control your actions...that's what women do and that's why they are so mental
They aren't quite kids, if you are having sex and also able to cheat then you are beyond being a kid IMO. Would this person get away with murder? No, so why should we excuse cheating? Both are wrong. Perhaps my punishment is harsh, but I quite like it.
And as for being a man and controlling emotions, maybe you should look at yourself and your bizarre relationship with David Haye. ;D
