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Originally Posted by Punisher136
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Yeah, everything's as simple as that.
Both insulting and ignorant, VD. Not to say cheap and unreflective. Did I mention ignorant?
Ice Cold, too ... how easy you guys find it to categorize and judge, like you see and know all.
Someday, folks will say the same kinds of things about you for something you did for very complex and difficult reasons which you may not fully understand yourself ... but that other person will pigeonhole you and explain you with one swift descriptive phrase, and it's as simple as that.
Very philospical Nutha, cool click for that.
But people are always stereotyping/judging on what they know little of. Can blame people for that, everyone does it. Like you said most people don't often fully understand what leads themselves to certain actions, much less have the ability to understand another's.
If someone robs a bank, a lot of people not only label them as a criminal, but as a bad person.
The media is a faceless enemy and tyson didn't know how to deal with it. He didn't bow down to it... he let out his resentment towards it. Now he's still dealing with how disgraceful "the world" thinks he is.
I don't think Tyson is more mentally ill than millions of people walking the streets who live normal lives.
Like everyone he has his good and his bad sides.
People are not responsible for the illnesses they suffer from (outside events and people can cause them), but they are responsible for their actions while suffering from it. Mike tyson didn't make himself bi-polar but mike tyson did commit the crime.
Sometimes folks are responsible for their actions when suffering from ceratin illnesses, and sometimes they are not, if we're speaking in legal terms.
I do not at all hold Tyson up as a complete victim who did bad things because he was both disturbed and manipulated. He lives as a responsible person in this world along with the rest of us, and we all have to make choices on how to live and act. We do this each with our own mixture of desires, challenges, weaknesses, strengths ... sometimes our lusts, weaknesses, despair (throw in a bit of booze to enhance) are quite powerful in comparison with our "better self" ... it is still incumbant upon us to live responsibly among our fellows.
Certainly there are those who took advantage of Tyson, and this was one of the things that played into his own life perspective. That doesn't turn you into a rapist or an ear-eater. :)
But the flippant manner in which some categorize others is shallow, incorrect and ungenerous. That's not as serious a crime as rape or even aural canibalism ... but it is still wrong. That means that we're not dealing with our own limitations very graciously or well ... we share that same human nature that led Tyson astray.
I've lived among ghetto folk, and was insulted for all of them by the comment that 'you can take a person out of the ghetto, but not the ghetto out of the person.' It is an ignorant statement because it appears to know nothing of the real people in the ghetto, most of whom have the same dreams and desires and values as the folks who live in nicer places. It's hard to live good when you have nothing, real hard. Some of them do, and some of them don't, but that's not so different from those that do have, is it?