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Never chase. That's the first and probably hardest rule.
Secondly, go out with the boys and get stuck into the first big unit you can get your hands on :sumo:
Perfect 'rebound tackle' and they'll do anything for a few chips and a bite of yer kebab.
True.
To drown your sorrows book a 3 night stay in Amsterdam or Bangkok.
There is more cunts there than there are at Anfield.
JK bro seriousley sorry about that mate, seems like that girl meant a lot to you and I hope you recover well.
There's a saying I've heard "If a girl doesn't want you then there is no point fighting for her".
Do what you feel is best mate.
One of the biggest mistakes young people make is that they isolate themselves to the opposite sex they tend to distance themselves from friends... What happens is when you put your eggs in one basket its difficult to rebound cause you have flushed your support team down the tubes.. it would make grieving a little more easier...
I was haeartbroken a few times when I was younger then I turned into a ruthless spiteful prick... You owe it to yourself to make a mature and well thought attempt to try to reconcile.. if she says she will think about or tells you how it has to be for her you respect that... If she says flat out no way, than you pretend she is dead to you END OF!!! you as a human being should feel you are better than that... People can go on about a womans prespective and thats just fina and dandy but if she dosent want to reconcile that I could give a flying fuck about that shit.. My compassion stops there..
But I will say this if you love her than you respect her 100000% so if that means she is better off with out you than so be it Loving someone dosent stop because its over so dont go off the deep end and insulting her and stalking her... Remember love is not selfish just let her be and wish her well in your heart and know you will be strenghtened by this and it will condition you to take the rigors and dissapointments in life all in stride..
Make sure you fuck till your balls fall off too;D nothing says lovin like some meaningless aggressive sex with some slampig who will let you do unspeakable things to her and mutualy excepts this concept... Just wrap it thats all :-X
You will be fine dude these guys will tell ya and you might remember I was in the shitter a year and a half ago around here and the boys and girls gave me some good words of encouragement
El Queero and SuperHeavyBondage Rhun told me that Cutemick will gladly Email you some of his Nudist Apache Pics if you would like;D
Sounds like she's seeing someone else. Just let her go and move on with yer life.
If I were you, I'd just tell her "you're not the only woman in the world you fucking cheatin' whore!":mad:
It's ok to say that imo, cause you guys are not married yet and dont have kids.
Nah she would never do that. I was the first guy she ever did anything with. She wouldnt cheat on me, shes too nice for that. And i asked her straight out before.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pacstraightleft
Man im so cut up at the moment, like ive said. Im giving her a couple of weeks and then im gonna call her. But i dont know how long i can keep on functioning like this, i have barely eaten in 3 days and ive got shit all sleep.
Oh Shit!!!!!!!! I forgot the most obvious!!!! BOXING, BOXING has helped me through the roughest shit in life it keeps my mind occupied.. Coralles vs Castillo was one of those suprise fights that did it for me, It was a Saturday night and me and my Ex Fiance broke up and I didt feel like doing anything but sitting on the couch and watching TV... Well seeing that fight live just put me in a whole different mind frame
It's not much comfort now but the fact that your brothers on here can both relate to and illustrate they have got through the same situation, should highlight that you can and will get through it.Quote:
Originally Posted by snakey
Letting go is hard. But honesty (with yourself) + distraction are the key.
You gotta trust me Shakey...I was right about Ricky Hatton and I'm right about this ;)
I'm only 20 myself and as young as that is, sometimes it feels like I've already lived my life, I'm past my prime and there's nothing else to live for and that I'll never be truely happy again. I hope so you will find another girl one day.Quote:
Originally Posted by snakey
Yes, beating on the heavybag can also help me cope with pain. ;) Good ol' punching bag, it can take any abuse I feel like inflicting.Quote:
Originally Posted by JT Rock
Yeh man, big girls think they have a point to prove!Quote:
Originally Posted by steelie
;D
Progress Report:
Snakeys emotions are up and down. Was happy last night but did not last for long. Has barely eaten anything but a biscuit in 3 days and has had around 8 hours sleep in these 3 days. Has no energy nor does he have the will to eat. Nearly called her yesterday, had the number on the screen of his mobile but used every bit of will power to chuck the phone away. Has given phone to his mother for the day as she was going out of town. First day back at work, am busy but its not enough to keep my mind off her. Even when talking to customers on the phone snakey cant help but remember the phone call he received in which his beloved gf broke his heart. Doing a good job of faking a stomach virus so people he works with dont see the real reason, feels like he could throw up anyway so not much to fake.
Glad ya hanging in there mate!!Quote:
Originally Posted by snakey
Anyway, I thought of a cool story that if you happen to talk to her again and give HER one last chance to WIN YOUUU back, you could tell her this story... If you practice saying it to yourself a couple of times and just remember the main points of it, it'll go down really well, and will just give her that last opportunity to think about her reasons for not being with you and if they are real or not...
Here's how the story goes/how you'll say it to her from here in..
"This story is called, Meeting the 100% perfect girl, one fine, spring afternoon in Austin (change this to sydney or Melbourne or something).
The story starts with with "once upon a time", and ends with "so,,, sad story isn't it?"
Once upon a time, on a fine Spring Afternoon in Austin, a guy was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.
He wasn't thinking about anything special, he was just going to do his laundry.
At the same time from the other direction, a girl was walking along Forest street, going to mail a letter. She wasn't thinking about anything special, hadn't gotten dressed up or put on make-up,,,, she was just going to mail a letter.
And it just so happened they passed each other.
As the guy looked up at the girl he said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect girl for me... Who would think, you could just be out doing your laundry, and you would meet the 100% perfect girl for you.
And as the girl looked up at the guy, with her letter in her hand, she said, "you know what?? That is the 100% perfect guy for me... What are the chances of just being out mailing a letter, and meeting the 100% perfect guy for me?
And by some, Miracle, by some freak of chance, they both worked up the guts to talk to each other..
So they stopped to talk to each other. Then began walking down Forest street together, just talking about, life, and everything.. And they realised that, everything they had in common, they connected on one hundred percent... And everything they didn't have in common, complimented each other perfectly!
So as they kept walking, they headed down towards the lake and found a bench to sit on. So they sat down,,,
And, hours, went by in the blink of a eye...
After a while, they both started thinking, and the guy says, "You know what?? This is too weird... What are the chances you can just walk outside your house one day, and meet the 100% perfect person for you" And with that, just a small, sliver of doubt popped into their heads.. and they began to wonder..
Suddenly the guy says, "Here is what we are going to do... If this was really meant to be,,, If fate realllly meant for us to be together, then we should seperate right now, without exchanging numbers or anything,,, and let fate decide... If we run into each other again, we'll know that it was meant to be, and we'll just get married right on the spot and live happily every after!"...
So the girl agreed, and they parted ways.
He went to the East. She went to the West.
A day passed, and they didn't see each other.
2 days passed. 3 days passed. A week passed. A month passed. A year passed, and they still hadn't seen each other.
By this time, they both began seeing other people...
Over the years to come, they were even fortunate enough to find love.. They found 60% perfect love.... 70% perfect love... Even as much as 83% perfect love,,, But neither of them found 100% perfect love again..
Eventually though, they both got married and had happy lives.. They had happy marriages with nice people, and they had nice kids who were happy, and even grandkids.....
One day, many many years in the future though, there was a very bad influenza going around, and many people got very very sick.... The man and the lady ended up recovering from their ilness, but both their partners died..
....
So,,,,,,
One fine, spring afternoon in Austin, the man was walking down Forest street, going to do his laundry.. He was now an old, weathered man, and was clutching his laundry bag, in his feable weak hand, as he went to do his laundry...
And from the other direction came a lady who was going to mail a letter. She had her letter there, tucked into her feable, weak old hand. She was about 79 now, him 82, as she was going to mail her letter..
And they passed each other..
As the man looked up at the lady he said, "You know what?? I think I know that lady from somewhere?.?. There is something about her,,, but I just can't put my finger on it"..
And as the lady looked up the man she said "You know what?? I feel like I know that man... It feels like there is something there, or he has some meaning?.?."
But to many years had passed for the both of them, and they couldn't put their finger on it. To many new experiences and memories had filled their lives now, and the memory of each other had faded..
So they passed each other, and didn't even speak....
*****
But the thing is, They REALLY WERE the 100% perfect people for each other. Fate really did mean for them to spend their lives together....
And fate will put you together once, but what are the chances that fate will put you together twice?? It's like winning tattslotto, then throwing out the ticket and trying to win again just to make sure it was meant to be.
There mistake was that they second guessed fate, and fate never gave them a second chance..
So... Sad story isn't it?"
Anyway, that's it... I'm not sure how you'd want to use that story or if you'd even want to,,, but I think it's a good story to make her think about what she's giving up... And she better be prepared to let you go if that's the choice she wants to make,,,, and that their is only so many chances she'll get before you'll have moved on and she won't get that chance... So she better be sure that you are not the right person for her...
Are you fuckin kiddin me mate...Quote:
Originally Posted by Dizaster
Thats a fucking good idea! Im gonna try it when i try and see her in a couple of weeks. Im gonna tell her that story and then say to her at the end "if this is meant to be, do you really want to tempt fate and risk the chances of never again being together". I hopes thats gonna be a tear jerker ;)
Mate, it was a nice tale but give it a miss eh. Dont try any gimmicks, no tricks, no grand gestures. Just tell her straight. Let her know how you feel and leave it, if she wants you she'll let you know.
Good luck mate.