Re: Alright, I need some advice from the man and the women..
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Originally Posted by Sharla
Someone mentioned that nuce guys loose out to Bad boys and I've recently developed my own theory on this from a female perspective so I'm going to sum it up.
Everyone knows women like confidence - myself included and it has often annoyed me to not find myself attracted to the nice shy guy. I didn't understand how it could possibly be a good thing because it's so easy to mistake arrogance from real confidence.
Last weekend I met a 30 year old guy (friend of a friend) who was nice and quiet but the killer was that he was also so very insecure. Just too easily hurt and emotionally breakable. You feel like you are walking on egg shells all the time to avoid hurting anyone's feelings.
This guy was so insecure he seriously told me all about how when he was 3 years old his younger sister (who was 18 months old at the time) pushed him out of a peddlecar he got for his birthday. He seriously cited this incident (that most people surely could not even remember) as a reason to hate his sister's guts nearly 3 decades later! How can you win with someone so sensitive who holds onto crap like that?!?
That's why I say you don't want to be too romantic now because you are obviously a fantastic friend, she knows you like and respect her so now you'll be most likely to benefit from her feeling like you are not too emotionally breakable to enjoy the early stages of a relationship so she can explore how things work between you as a couple without fearing loosing you as a friend if things go wrong. It's not that you did the wrong thing just that if you continued to do it after doing it so well to begin with it might not help. You could easily do that again when things have progressed to a more stable level.
Am I making any sense? Just looking hot around her now is a good thing and as a fit young guy that probably doesn't require a lot of effort! good luck :)
CC sharla for keepin it REAL! welcome to the forum keep posting :)
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Thanks P4P :) CC back at ya
Re: Alright, I need some advice from the man and the women..
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Originally Posted by Sharla
Thanks P4P :) CC back at ya
where you from sharla?
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Australia - procrastinating at Uni right now :)
Re: Alright, I need some advice from the man and the women..
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Australia - procrastinating at Uni right now :)
yeah i knew it, u couldnt have been a stuck up wack LA girl. a wack fake LA girl would never have kept it real like you just did.
generally speaking the austrailian girls i met were very open and forward which is BADASSSSSSSSS! :D
i was at this big summer concert festival called BUMBERSHOOT last summer and this hot Austrailian chick was jocking me hard like she just started mackin to me out of the blue and putting her hands all over me. the problem was i was already mackin to this HOT asss Canadian chick and just bout to close the deal, so in essence the austrailian chick was cockblockin me from closing the deal so i ended up just getting the canada chicks digits when in hindsight i prolly should of just went for the austrailian chick since that ishhhhhhhh was already official :'(
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you wanna know how silly i was? i used a Steve Irwin R.I.P line to her :-[
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Q-TIP from the group A TRIBE CALLED QUEST was all like lets take a moment of silence for everyone we lost this year.......
so my dumb assss screams out: RIP STEVER IRWIN(cuz he just died like the day before!)
so from that point the austrailian chick was all up on me :-[ ;D
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Awww don't worry P4P. There's a reasonable number of Australian chicks in the world and in someplaces in Australia the female to male ratio is something like 4:1 so I'm sure you'll get another shot with an Aussie girl someday ;)
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Awww don't worry P4P. There's a reasonable number of Australian chicks in the world and in someplaces in Australia the female to male ratio is something like 4:1 so I'm sure you'll get another shot with an Aussie girl someday ;)
CC in 24hrs babe! imma spread myself THIN this time when i go to bumbershoot this summer ahahaha. imma have to close deals faster than i ever have before so theres no more cockblockage like last summer lol.
good luck at UNI and tell ya girls to meet me at bumbershoot this summer ill be ready this time!
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All good will do :)
ill be preparing at OUTBACK STEAKHOUSE! :feedme: :lolhaha:
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Well you get points for enthusiasm - have fun!
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Too much thinking not enough doing !!!
I use to be like Majesty evaulating every single little mood and gesture but now i just jump in feet 1st .
Girls dig confidence baby , you have to look at them and know that you can guarantee them at least once orgasim .!!!
I've never bought a girl jewellry and i never take them to fancy french restuaraunts they can have a Burger or kebab or fuck right off !
Women might think they want a sensitive caring guy who shares their feelings but in all honesty they want to be taken to a picnic area and ruined Doggy style after you've broken out the wine and Scotch Eggs .
My pulling technique is to walk up to a girl and hold their hand and ask if they mind ?
Dont hold out for one girl Majesty listen to Swashbuckling Gordy he's your man , take her to a local beauty Spot have a nice lunch Pork Pies , Cocktail sausages that kinda thing and then ask then make your move !!
Never fails................rout her son rout her !
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Too much thinking not enough doing !!!
I use to be like Majesty evaulating every single little mood and gesture but now i just jump in feet 1st .
Girls dig confidence baby , you have to look at them and know that you can guarantee them at least once orgasim .!!!
I've never bought a girl jewellry and i never take them to fancy french restuaraunts they can have a Burger or kebab or fuck right off !
Women might think they want a sensitive caring guy who shares their feelings but in all honesty they want to be taken to a picnic area and ruined Doggy style after you've broken out the wine and Scotch Eggs .
My pulling technique is to walk up to a girl and hold their hand and ask if they mind ?
Dont hold out for one girl Majesty listen to Swashbuckling Gordy he's your man , take her to a local beauty Spot have a nice lunch Pork Pies , Cocktail sausages that kinda thing and then ask then make your move !!
Never fails................rout her son rout her !
You really do that and it works? You are the fwocking man!! I tried to take a girl to a kebab once,when I was like 15,never tried it since though ;D :D Funny shat bro!!
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Majesty you seem like a decent guy and i read your story whilst listening to Roy Orbison "i drove all night". I almost got whisked away in the adventure wanting you two to be as one, one heart overcoming adversity and all odds to spend the rest of your lives together in eachothers arms. True love triumphs over all obstacles etc etc etc.
However i turned Roy off and re read it. I think she might have someome else mate in all honesty.
Sorry
