Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Bilbo
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Chino
It's a complete misunderstaning of the dynamics of relationships to think that a woman can pull a man for sex
Then I guess I have been lucky to have some women in my life be the aggressors when it comes to sex only to have me reject their offers. Am I an Adonis? Far from it. It's just that the opportunity presented itself like that.
You've totally misunderstood my point Chino. Lot's of girls think they can pull guys and are pleased with themselves when they get laid.
But as I said this is a complete misunderstanding of human dynamics. When it comes to one night stands, man is the hunter, women the prey.
Any girl who think's she's pulling a guy is just deluding herself. Unless she is repulsive physically (and even then it's often not fatal) the guy will fuck her if she asks. It has nothing to do with him liking her or her 'pulling' him it's just that that's what men are biologically programmed to do.
Imagine a worm that boasted to it's friends (ok I know it would be dead but hypothetically) that birds loved it and every Robin it had approached had eaten it, as if that made it special. It would just be a very sad and stupid worm.
Likewise girls who approach men in a club to try and get laid for a self esteem boost are generally just low value or unnattractive girls, being forced to offer themselves in exchange for nothing to get attention.
A girl shouldn't boast about having lots of one night stands with men any more than a man shouldn't boast about being saddled with the same woman for 10 years and being completely under the thumb.
Trouble begins when you got your night vision beer goggles on.
Chinos right prostitution is cheaper and probably more interesting to some when you add up the whole marriage deal.
Theres a true expression for relationships; Whoever cares less holds the power.
Thats a shame .
Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Bilbo
I doubt Mick is especially big but he's so smooth he probably has a stylist for his pubic hair and some kind of trendy fashion accessories to adorn his ball sacks.
If there are such things as designer shades for genitals you can be sure Mick owns several pairs.
Mick never did confirm or deny this. I reckon it's true. He must have some kind of designer fashion statement going on down there :thinking2:
Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
Chinos right prostitution is cheaper and probably more interesting to some when you add up the whole marriage deal.
Sad but true. If you are all for a loving relationship and willing to risk having a sex life that will be a bit more limited and every once in a while and also the risk of getting everything snatched away from you in divorce (divorce rates are as high as 50% of marriages according to most surveys/studies) and end up in the street, then go for it. In the long run, prostitution will be cheaper and the sex experience will be way better than with the typical gf/wife.
Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Chino
Quote:
Chinos right prostitution is cheaper and probably more interesting to some when you add up the whole marriage deal.
Sad but true. If you are all for a loving relationship and willing to risk having a sex life that will be a bit more limited and every once in a while and also the risk of getting everything snatched away from you in divorce (divorce rates are as high as 50% of marriages according to most surveys/studies) and end up in the street, then go for it. In the long run, prostitution will be cheaper and the sex experience will be way better than with the typical gf/wife.
man, and i thought i was cynical..
first off, what andre said is correct.. whoever cares less holds the power..
with that said, i've been in a few serious relationships (years at a time) and the sex was always good.. I enjoy having sex with someone i'm "in love" with than just some random girl. Me and my friends decided that you have to have sex three times with a girl to get the full experience and appreciate her body.. this is usually cause i'm always drunk when i do some random girl, but it's true.. i don't even know how many people i've been with and on top of that, most of them were only once and i really didn't enjoy it NEARLY as much as someone who i've been with for a while....
plus, when you say "typical" wife or girlfriend, what does that mean? Maybe i don't aim for typical or something but i want someone who will travel with me, and someone who is as outgoing as i am.. someone who can be one of my best friends.. MAYBE it's just me, but i'm all set with doing those things with a prostitute..
finally, my last thing that kills your argument about the whole "buying a girl a drink or dinner is like paying a prostitute" is the fact that you're playing her like it's a game.. You go out, and you're trying to land a hot girl that you hope you can take home.. 50%+ of the fun is the chase and the mystery of it all.. the "is she into me" and "what will happen next".. Then when you finally land her, it's a great feeling of accomplishment. This adds SO MUCH to the whole experience.. If you're paying for a prostitute, which i think is heavily frowned upon and shows terrible signs of desperation, then there is no mystery. she's going to come over in something slutty, probably fukked out of her mind on heroine, and is going to sleep with you, then ask for money. WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHMENT.
Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
Originally Posted by
RP33
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Chino
Quote:
Chinos right prostitution is cheaper and probably more interesting to some when you add up the whole marriage deal.
Sad but true. If you are all for a loving relationship and willing to risk having a sex life that will be a bit more limited and every once in a while and also the risk of getting everything snatched away from you in divorce (divorce rates are as high as 50% of marriages according to most surveys/studies) and end up in the street, then go for it. In the long run, prostitution will be cheaper and the sex experience will be way better than with the typical gf/wife.
man, and i thought i was cynical..
first off, what andre said is correct.. whoever cares less holds the power..
with that said, i've been in a few serious relationships (years at a time) and the sex was always good.. I enjoy having sex with someone i'm "in love" with than just some random girl. Me and my friends decided that you have to have sex three times with a girl to get the full experience and appreciate her body.. this is usually cause i'm always drunk when i do some random girl, but it's true.. i don't even know how many people i've been with and on top of that, most of them were only once and i really didn't enjoy it NEARLY as much as someone who i've been with for a while....
plus, when you say "typical" wife or girlfriend, what does that mean? Maybe i don't aim for typical or something but i want someone who will travel with me, and someone who is as outgoing as i am.. someone who can be one of my best friends.. MAYBE it's just me, but i'm all set with doing those things with a prostitute..
finally, my last thing that kills your argument about the whole "buying a girl a drink or dinner is like paying a prostitute" is the fact that you're playing her like it's a game.. You go out, and you're trying to land a hot girl that you hope you can take home.. 50%+ of the fun is the chase and the mystery of it all.. the "is she into me" and "what will happen next".. Then when you finally land her, it's a great feeling of accomplishment. This adds SO MUCH to the whole experience.. If you're paying for a prostitute, which i think is heavily frowned upon and shows terrible signs of desperation, then there is no mystery. she's going to come over in something slutty, probably fukked out of her mind on heroine, and is going to sleep with you, then ask for money. WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHMENT.
I think we are just weighing up the financial and emotional costs more than the love verses the quick polish and run theme ;D.
My wife /kids /house/food/cars/etc etc... I wouldnt swap for any amount of pros.(never fukked one actually).
But being emotionally seperate for the exersize ;the family sure do add up to a hell of lot more in trouble and finances over a twenty year period.
But you grow together and larger than when alone I think.
Just thinking aloud bro..the variation of a different woman race ,size or fetish in regards to pros could have its benifits if someone is that way inclined. Every woman and man to his own needs though,its all cool makes the world go round.;)
plus, when you say "typical" wife or girlfriend, what does that mean?
Difference between your wife and your job?
Your job still continually sucks after ten years .
Girls in teens say "Ohhh faster faster faster".
Women pre teens start to say "slower slower baby".
Women after children ..."beige; I think we'll paint the ceilings beige'.;D
Re: Relationships revolve around women
Quote:
I enjoy having sex with someone i'm "in love" with than just some random girl
That's right. Same here. I rather have sex with my wife (if I ever marry) then a random girl. The whole after-sex resting in each others' arms and all that sappy stuff I wouldn't be able to have with a random girl and even if we just played along, it wouldn't be the same than being with my wife. So I rather have limited, less explosive, less kinky, less experimental, less times, etc. with my wife than a prostitute who would offer way more in the pleasure department.
Quote:
this is usually cause i'm always drunk when i do some random girl
LoL
Quote:
plus, when you say "typical" wife or girlfriend, what does that mean? Maybe i don't aim for typical or something but i want someone who will travel with me, and someone who is as outgoing as i am.. someone who can be one of my best friends.. MAYBE it's just me, but i'm all set with doing those things with a prostitute...
Sure, to have your wife as your best friend and all is what I would prefer as well regardless of sex not being anything near of what a prostitute/dancer/etc. offers. You have to sacrifice one thing for the other I guess.
Quote:
finally, my last thing that kills your argument about the whole "buying a girl a drink or dinner is like paying a prostitute" is the fact that you're playing her like it's a game...You go out, and you're trying to land a hot girl that you hope you can take home.. 50%+ of the fun is the chase and the mystery of it all...the "is she into me" and "what will happen next"...Then when you finally land her, it's a great feeling of accomplishment. This adds SO MUCH to the whole experience...If you're paying for a prostitute, which i think is heavily frowned upon and shows terrible signs of desperation, then there is no mystery. she's going to come over in something slutty, probably fukked out of her mind on heroine, and is going to sleep with you, then ask for money. WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHMENT
Ok, I think I get what you are saying but bottom line is that both were paid for. One was paid hard cold cash while the other one was paid with a fancy dinner, wine, transportation, event (movies, play, museum, concert, etc.), a gift, etc. and in the end the street prostitute will be cheaper (in the long run) and way better in bed. Also, with the prostitute, besides being cheaper and offering better sex, you are guaranteed 100% that you will get some action whereas with the "typical girl" you are not guaranteed so it means that your money could just fly out of your wallet and pretty much just mean you paid for someone to talk your ears off about the latest celebrity gossip and what not.
Quote:
My wife /kids /house/food/cars/etc etc... I wouldn't swap for any amount of pros.(never fukked one actually)
I agree. Haven't been with a street prostitute either but have been close to. On a business trip my colleagues threw a prostitute to me and I think they even paid her already. She gave me some sweet talk that I didn't really believe but played along and I ended up rejecting her. But I am not going to complain about how she talked to me, how she caressed me, hugged me, played with my hair, her eyes how she delicately looked at me as we talked a little as she rubbed my hand, playful smile when we joked, her femenine perfume, smoking body, etc. I was visiting Thailand beaches a few weeks ago and met a girl who I found out later she was a GoGo Dancer but she also did the stuff I mentioned in this paragraph. Oh man! These girls are trained/experienced in the arts of seduction and pleasure. No doubt they would screw my brains out but, its just not my thing.
If relationships REALLY revolved around BOTH, what a difference would that really make. It's 2009 and relationships are still traditional where it all revolves around the woman. It doesn't make sense to me.
