That is a tride a true method if their ever is one :jerk: seems to be a solution to almost 95% of lifes troubles;DQuote:
Originally Posted by Memphis
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That is a tride a true method if their ever is one :jerk: seems to be a solution to almost 95% of lifes troubles;DQuote:
Originally Posted by Memphis
I told her that all i wanted was to talk like adults and that i was pissed off coz she let me sweat two days with me thinking i would see her before she told me she wouldnt turn up. From the sound of it though, her parents seemed to have had a fair bit to do with it. So that hurts, im angry but im also hurt. I just got up, its 6:30am here and woke up every hour coz i kept dreaming about her. I said to her last night "so you are never gonna want me back and you never want to go out with me again" and she said she couldnt say that because she wasnt sure how she would feel in a couple of months.
Needless to say im feeling a little sick after last night, i hit alcohol pretty hard. It helped to start with but in the end it left me depressed when i got home. Thanks for all the support guys, i appreciate it. Some of the shit ive said here, i couldnt say to mates or anything but yeah for now snakey isnt in a good way.
No worries man
Sometimes you gotta take your lumps and persevere, it makes you a better man in the end cause you will be stronger and better equipped to handle adversity when it arrives... Enjoy your mates go out as often as you can and chase the muff around and build some confidence up again.
Do things for yourself and learn who you are, the only guarantee in life is you have you, so enjoy things that fullfill you so that when you meet a new lady you have alot to bring to the table of your relationship;)
Here's the part where you get a heavy bag...
If it weren't for boxing I'd be a messed up case. Honestly, beat the hell out of a bag for a while, it'll help a lot.
I'm sad for ya Snakey, it's a tough time and your gonna struggle.
But mate, she treated you bad. She didn't turn up like she said you would....Is that a sign of respect?
Move on man...Show everybody that your more than they think you are.
Yeah I am with Donny, get something good to do. Time to move on. I would suggest playing that guitar of yours really loud. That is what I would do.
Yeah I'd play the guitar really loud too!
You're gonna have a lot more time on your hands now....Like JT suggested you could keep that time "in the hand" or you could do somethin productive.
Yeah being single, it is 'in the hand' alot. ha ha ha :( :)
What does not kill me, shall only make me stronger.:DQuote:
Originally Posted by boozeboxer
Wow, That brought back memories for me.. When I lost my first love after 2 years, I was destroyed.. And to take my mind off it, I would play my guitar, LOUD..The hardest metal that I could play... I KNEW that it would be driving the entire house mad, and probably neighbors.. But it was very theraputic and I felt much better once i'd had enough and decided to turn it down again.Quote:
Originally Posted by hitmandonny
Yeah I understand, in a similar situation I used to hit the bag a lot. I'd be lpounding the bag and all this emotion would come out, I'd be completely at a loss as to what I was doing really, all I knew was it helpedQuote:
Originally Posted by DizasterWow, That brought back memories for me.. When I lost my first love after 2 years, I was destroyed.. And to take my mind off it, I would play my guitar, LOUD..The hardest metal that I could play... I KNEW that it would be driving the entire house mad, and probably neighbors.. But it was very theraputic and I felt much better once i'd had enough and decided to turn it down again.Quote:
Originally Posted by hitmandonny
Have you thought about a vacation to take your mind off things. I remmeber when I went to New York and I had a lot of shit back home when going and yet when I was out there I didn't dwell off anything and it took my mind off it all.Quote:
Originally Posted by DizasterWow, That brought back memories for me.. When I lost my first love after 2 years, I was destroyed.. And to take my mind off it, I would play my guitar, LOUD..The hardest metal that I could play... I KNEW that it would be driving the entire house mad, and probably neighbors.. But it was very theraputic and I felt much better once i'd had enough and decided to turn it down again.Quote:
Originally Posted by hitmandonny
Aye... punch bag is probably a good idea... before I started boxing I was a right arsehole... always trying to wind people up/get in trouble etc...
The more and more I've stick with my boxing, the mellower I've become...
it's either that or the last doobie I had before I started boxing has some how managed to get stuck in my blood for over 3 years?
Probably the boxing as I've foundthe same thing.
Was a real aggresive teenager. From the ages of 14-16 I was smaller than most guys and if they tried anything, no matter how mild I'd take it really personally.
At 16 I really dedicated myself to the sport and I am just so chilled out.
Problem is when I take a lapse of training my endorphin levels hit the floor:p:-\:(:eek:
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Originally Posted by Memphis
hahaha good ole Pam, never let me down :cool:
Hey guys. Got a shit load of anger built up and have learnt alcohol isnt the way. Just trying to chill out and relax at the moment. Trying to clear my head, its a long weekend down here after tomoz and its also my bday on saturday so im hanging with mates. Last bday, i was hanging with a mate and my gf...i could fuckin deal with this shit so much easier if we didnt have such good fuckin memories. It was only like since the start of january that shit hit the fan.