well have fun with that, I already know some of you going behind the scene talking about me. Now isn't that one of a womens tendencies? ;)
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Who's talking about you? Behind the scenes? You mean on this thread or on other places on the board? If they are posting about you, you can read it, it's not really behind your back.
Rains, you should know that I dont talk about anyone behind the scenes. If I don't like someone I tell them, then I make a thread about them, then I negative rep them every chance I get, Then I point out every gay ass thread they make.
While you can blame your problems on youth tendencies, that is all you are doing. Blaming your problems. I am very young but I dont blame my problems on youth. Hell if I did that, I could blame them on youth right up until I blamed them on middle-age......well hell I would just be making excuses!
im not making an excuse, Im just correcting what you called women tendencies. It is true they are more like youth tendencies.
Im not blaming my problems on anything, I already stated its all my fault and now I will deal with it my way. I thought sharing it here was a good idea but instead of ideas I got redicule, judged and consistantly. even now that its known the other girl is not pregnant. before I knew she was really pregnant people here already made up there mind she was and was already judging me for what is not fact yet.
I know i fucked up and thats why i acted the way i did on day 1. in my shoes who wouldn't act they way they did. I admit I was wrong to think what I thought on day 1 but i got my head straighten out and got over things and to my suprise rather quickly. all i really need to do now is make sure my wife remembers I once loved her if she decides to leave me or not. Im sure sharla is going to hope she does leave me. I do not blame her, i'll face the consequences. i dodged a bullet with the other girl, shes not pregnant. Now its what I always needed to tell the wife. I have been seeing other girls. its horrible i know but im relief i do not need to add the fact that i got another chick pregnant.
Would that bird be legion?
I do recall VD and I telling you to get your wits about you and don't do anything stupid until you know for sure....... but I guess that isnt kicking you while down/.......
Well to be honest I'm not religious but I break fewer commandmants than you so talk about god all you like.
My last post was actually in reflection of whether or not I believed the post i highlighted about your wife maybe being pregnant and how you're lucky if it's ture.
The rest was to highlight how much i disagree with Bilbo's assumption of you being 'in a loveless marriage'.
It wasn't targeted directly at you - I'd finished with that but since you have so much negative stuff to say about women and while you didn't say you don't love your wife you have said you hate her why are you married?!?!
You don't have to be married to everyone you love.
I'll also add that if I feel guilty about something I expect people to kick me for it. I almost appreciate it since I'd feel I deserved some kind of bad repurcussion that only effected me. I'd take my dose without complaint.
:lol: wtf :confused::-\:confused:
I make Saddos sexy:
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My name is Raines.
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A picture of Legion, Amat, and Steelie:
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That's the problem he's working through now Sharla. I expect when he married he did love her and they got on well, enjoying each others company and being great friends.
But living together and the pressures of marriage, of difference in age, difference in interests etc have meant that they arn't liking each other so much any more.
When that happens it's easy to feel hatred for people you once cared about. It's a natural human reaction as evidenced by the fact you removed me from your friends list and no longer reply to my pm's. I guess becuase I disagreed with you over this I'm just an asshole not worthy of friendship eh?
Well I guess Rains has been in a similar situation in his marriage to where the situation with his wife has got so bad he's ended up feeling only hatred and anger towards her and has as a result treated her badly and cheated on her.
Of course that doesn't make it right, but it IS human nature sadly and we all end up hurting the ones we care about and falling out and cheating on them.
Hw can you not see that the amount of anger you seem to feel towards me and Rains, people you've never even met could be multiplied 100 x times if you had actually married that person and now felt stuck with them for the rest of your life and trapped?
You simply cannot act the way you've been acting on this thread with your completely unsympathetic judgements and not come across as a total hypocrite.
Your responses like 'well don't be married then' just betray a total lack of ability to empathise with someones situation. It's not easy to come to a decision to just leave someone you committed to marry, and if you can happily divorce someone without a second thought then what kind of love was that in the first place?
Rains shouldn't cheat on his wife. It's wrong, we all know that, just as we know that practically everybody in the whole world has cheated on somebody in some way at some point in their life.
Many great men (and woman) have commited the act of infidelity and will continue to do so. This doesn't mean it's ok and that they happily carry out this state of affairs without any thoughts of guilt or conscience, it just means people are human, nobody is perfect and we all cheat on each other, hurt each other and let each other down.
It is symbolic of the human condition I'm afraid and a sign that we are all selfish creatures at heart.
You may think you are better than Rains because you have never cheated on a man before, well you havn't been married to someone you later realise you don't love, or you find that you are both incompatible.
If your response to that is 'well he should have thought about that beforehand' then you just show yourself to have no empathy for your fellow humans and are not capable of showing compassion for people's mistakes.
You may have convinced yourself that you are morally superior to Rains because of his cheating behaviour, and morally superior to me becuase I still like him, but trust me on this, when something goes wrong in your life, you do something wrong, get in trouble, have people turn against you because you did something shameful, in those moments you'll be extremely grateful for the friends you have who don't judge you, who don't join with the crowd in condemning you and don't withdraw their friendship from you.
Anyway I'm out of this thread now.
Clubber finally posted picture for us without frogs:
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A picture that Sal made for us!
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Booze >:mad
Why are you bringing laughs to this thread? Don't make me go positive rep HattonHammer, I'll do it I swear.
Well I did reply to your last PM - I've only been at my computer for 10 minutes and it wasn't the first thing I choose to do you tool!
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Everyone jumps of a bridge you don't have to follow them and brag about it. If he kept his private life private I'd have had no comment but here on the forum i found it offensive for reasons I've alerady gone over but will reiterate one more time:
He used the sympathy card when I first told him he was being an ass in the Living 2 lives thread ........I backed off a little but then still joked about it and made even more comments talking about ordering an abortion etc - then he started saying "only the dudes understand me".
Basically he thought he had me fooled and wrapped around his little finger with his initial sook act and because I was silly enough to relent a little show him some compassion initially while highlighting the health risks he was taking - then on his next thread he started being a smart arse, spouting crap like "the men understand me" and proving it was all just a manipulative little bitch ploy!
Of course I'm gonna go after him then!
He could talk about how much he hated his life in a huge thread not so long ago and we all supported him - he accepted that - he should be able to take bad feedback too when he goes against what he originally told us he stood for.
I won't apologise for that. If he'd shown true remorse which he still doesn't because he's just telling me how much he hates women now I wouldn't pick on him so much.
I'd know I wouldn't have to because he'd pick on himself and spend more time fixing the situation than on here trying to make excuses for it!
You made a joke of the first bit of compassion I showed you by backing off in the Living 2 lives thread, you keep telling me how much you hate women.
Diane and Katfight might be very compassionate people but more so than I because I don't see the point in pretending to like you when you hate all women so much.
hey bilbs im sorry even you had to lose a good friend in sharla because of me :-\. if you like i can trade bruce to even it out :D
No wonder Boobyboxer throws things at girl's in red dresses; he's just upset he doesn't look as good as they do.
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I do not hate all women, as a matter of fact i love all women that is my problem. yes they can drive me crazy but i can not live without one. and i love my wife the most that is why she is my wife. I was one of the first members to befriend you, you should know i do not hate women. I get mad at them as much as they get mad at me. I have nothing against them I just state things I've experience. Bottomline is I do not hate women. I have lots of female friends, one of the first things i told my wife. I told her i hope she is not the jealous type, she says shes not its ok I have lots of friends. then later when we got married she fought away most of my female friends. I was not cheating then, and we fought about it a lot. Turns out she really is possessive, i no longer care if she is. All I want to do now is keep her as my wife. Like i said if shes going to leave me, the rest of the time i have now with her Im going to spend on making sure she remembers I once loved her. I know she may not forgive me, but I hope she is more like diane and kat then like you.