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Ok as you all know me and my gf broke up a couple of months ago and snakey is ready to go after some other girls. But the problem is, i was out of the game for a yr and I dont know shit anymore. I went out last night, was on the dance floor and dancing with some hot chicks but didnt know how to close or really how to start with them. Anyone got any tips, reps will be given to helpful posters ;)
Use the line "it's too loud in here!.. 'you wanna get out of here and talk more?"
I don't know anything about bars, clubs or anything of that sort but best bet, drink a lot and find a seat. Find like a couch because everyone wants to sit down. Keep drinking and wait til girls literally fall in your lap.
If your unsuccessful you pass out comfortably and everything is alright.
Look around and say "So have you got a fat friend that has to escort you home and wreck your whole night or is it just you and me ?"
You've got to act really confident. Don't treat them badly or anything, but act kind of like an asshole, almost like you'd expect a really hot chick to act towards you if you were hitting on them. There was actually some pretty good advice from guys like Bilbo and Mick in the thread you made about your ex.
Since you claim to be out the game, why bother with words? Just slip something into there drink. Take them home. Have your way. Than drop them off in alley when your finish.
I'm 20 goin' on 21 and have never even HAD a girlfriend. :( Just don't do whatever it is that I've done and you'll be alright.Quote:
Originally Posted by snakey
Be sure to slip her a birth control pill along with it. :-XQuote:
Originally Posted by Violent Demise
I don't know how many times us old guys have to keep telling you kids this: It's all about confidence. Even if you're the fugliest dude in the bar, if you act like you're hot shit, chances are someone else will believe you. Don't fear rejection either, no one will remember how many times you strike out as long as you hit a home-run at some point during the game (some guy on TV here called it the Babe Ruth rule).Quote:
Originally Posted by ClubberI'm 20 goin' on 21 and have never even HAD a girlfriend. :( Just don't do whatever it is that I've done and you'll be alright.Quote:
Originally Posted by snakey
You must be slipping up in your old age Vd..:mad:, sell them on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Violent Demise
I've mellowed as I ageQuote:
Originally Posted by AndreYou must be slipping up in your old age Vd..:mad:, sell them on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Violent Demise
Rohypnol. :)
as bilbo wil tell you, you have to make it lok like you dont give a shit... be an elitist. ever notice that chicks get teated like shit yet don't leave the guy? you have to let them know you're spureior. i talk to chicks like they're guys. (but not rudely) just fuck around with them .
A good opener is asking for a womens opinion on something, because a) They love talking about themselves b) its non "threatening" like watching up to a girl and saying "I think we should mate".
That'll get her talking to you, then you just talk to her, be yourself (confident version of yourself) and don't ever buy her drinks never works just wastes your money.
Oh and when you first talk to them never ask for their permission to talk to them, ie. "Could I please get your opinion on something?" NO try "Hey I need a woman's opinion on this, bla bla bla" instead. It's a lot less of what you say than how you say it, be entertaining and when in idle chit chat don't just ask her the standard questions "where do you work/live/etc." tell her a stories about yourself which show, yourself in the best light like travelling, how fun you can be, etc.
I'm sure you will be fine buddy, remember practice makes perfect so talk to as many random women as possible and have fun :)
keep a pay stub on hand.