I REALLY needed to vent this somewhere

This is a completely random rant about this absolutely crazy bitch i met which has completely freaked me out. Needs a bit of back story first.

Basically i have been teaching English in Vietnam for 3 months (at 15 US an hour not fookin bad btw) and have saved up enough to go on a tour round Vietnam before teaching again. Bear in mind im only 18 like, had to save up a fuck load for the flight out here.

Anyway im in this town called Hue right, so you know do the standard and get completely slaughtered at this wicked bar which was giving us loads of free drinks all night, we (other people on tour) start talking to these chicks right who seem well up for a laugh and pretty cool. So next day is the last day in the town like and go and see them play a gig (they'r a band from the Phillipenes), and you know there damn talented. Have a good time like, got chatting to one of them who seemed really cool and pretty good looking to, so I have a bit of fun and then went home in the wee hours. Now this bird is fucking 27 and there's no fucking way im passing up the chance to bang a bird that age. So i decided to stay another day, big mistake. Met her in the day, sat by the river, had a little fun and im thinking this is all good. She seems well on me and seems alright herself if a bit insecure, I'm playing this bird like a fiddle and the thing is she's actually sucking it all in, its like a drug the power i seem to have over here.

So meet up with her this eveining at their gig and she's like "Im too tired for Brown Eyes (the bar) can we just go to your place" so i'm thinking "This is too fucking easy, I'm in heaven". So you know go to the hotel, have a fucking awesome shag, its all good.

Then it started to get really freaky, she started telling me how much she truly loved me (She hasn't drunk a drop of booze all day bear in mind) and how i should stay here and live with her and how we can have kinds and how not to go travellin. I'm thinking WTF is going on here, is she a headcase or something. She started like clinging on too me and begging me not leave and shit and I continued to pawn her off with lies and excuses (admittedly damn well told) like I'd been the whole time since i met here. It took all the persuasive power i had to actually convince her to get out of my hotel while still thinking that I actually liked her and that i was going to come back too see her.

This bitch is fucking crazy. I have to do a runner in the morning before the blokes from the band come looking for me and fucking castrate me, they knew exactly what i was doing from the start.

The Only reason i am posting this on here is cause i need somewhere to vent this crazy story and seen as its 3:30 am and I'm here on my own this is the only place i could think of.

She really was fucking crazy

Well, you realed her in and caught her, shes a live one she belived ALL your lies. She didn't know you were playing this game on her....

This probably isn't the best time to bring this up but have you ever seen the movie "Audition" ? :-X :-\


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Yeah man, what Mick said... thing is (I hate to generalize but) a lot of the ladies around south east Asia can latch on to you as quick as you can say snap. My friend had an experience like you... it is a different game over there if you're just looking for a 1 nighter. If you lie to them and start making them think you love them, they WILL believe you and will not pass the opportunity up too easily either. Fact is, for a lot of them... guys like you are their ticket to a better life in the Western World.

.....I don't like asian women.....I have seen their scary movies and you know what?......I just don't need my laundry that clean ;D



























don't call me a bigot, that's fucking funny right there

That was a surprise. I was waiting for a "I found out she was a lady boy but banged her anyway" line. ;D

Seriously mate, you're by yourself in a foreign place don't let your imagination run wild. Try and relax and get out of dodge asap.

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That was a surprise. I was waiting for a "I found out she was a lady boy but banged her anyway" line. ;D

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me too ;D

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Seriously mate, you're by yourself in a foreign place don't let your imagination run wild. Try and relax and get out of dodge asap.

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Good advice

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This is a completely random rant about this absolutely crazy bitch i met which has completely freaked me out. Needs a bit of back story first.

Basically i have been teaching English in Vietnam for 3 months (at 15 US an hour not fookin bad btw) and have saved up enough to go on a tour round Vietnam before teaching again. Bear in mind im only 18 like, had to save up a fuck load for the flight out here.

Anyway im in this town called Hue right, so you know do the standard and get completely slaughtered at this wicked bar which was giving us loads of free drinks all night, we (other people on tour) start talking to these chicks right who seem well up for a laugh and pretty cool. So next day is the last day in the town like and go and see them play a gig (they'r a band from the Phillipenes), and you know there damn talented. Have a good time like, got chatting to one of them who seemed really cool and  pretty good looking to, so I have a bit of fun and then went home in the wee hours. Now this bird is fucking 27 and there's no fucking way im passing up the chance to bang a bird that age. So i decided to stay another day, big mistake. Met her in the day, sat by the river, had a little fun and im thinking this is all good. She seems well on me and seems alright herself if a bit insecure, I'm playing this bird like a fiddle and the thing is she's actually sucking it all in, its like a drug the power i seem to have over here.

So meet up with her this eveining at their gig and she's like "Im too tired for Brown Eyes (the bar) can we just go to your place" so i'm thinking "This is too fucking easy, I'm in heaven". So you know go to the hotel, have a fucking awesome shag, its all good.

Then it started to get really freaky, she started telling me how much she truly loved me (She hasn't drunk a drop of booze all day bear in mind) and how i should stay here and live with her and how we can have kinds and how not to go travellin. I'm thinking WTF is going on here, is she a headcase or something. She started like clinging on too me and begging me not leave and shit and I continued to pawn her off with lies and excuses (admittedly damn well told) like I'd been the whole time since i met here. It took all the persuasive power i had to actually convince her to get out of my hotel while still thinking that I actually liked her and that i was going to come back too see her.

This bitch is fucking crazy. I have to do a runner in the morning before the blokes from the band come looking for me and fucking castrate me, they knew exactly what i was doing from the start.

The Only reason i am posting this on here is cause i need somewhere to vent this crazy story and seen as its 3:30 am and I'm here on my own this is the only place i could think of.

She really was fucking crazy

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So you play the girl like a fiddle but don't stay around for the orchestra :dontknow: 

I don't understand why you'd play someone's emotions like that and expect to be "leveled" with.  If she believed all your lies and you weren't prepared to have her believe the jest of them then dont say the fucking lies!

Don't play the game if you think you're gonna run out of corners before you get to the ending son.  But your young, I understand that...

But you may not find another girl who believes that, and the way karma will have it, you'll get played the same way.

So sorry ;)

I'm a faithful guy ;D

And you brought it n yourself! And now she has to suffer for it because she actually believed you and apparently was in love...

You're not the victim here...

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Originally Posted by 1-hit Wonder

This is a completely random rant about this absolutely crazy bitch i met which has completely freaked me out. Needs a bit of back story first.

Basically i have been teaching English in Vietnam for 3 months (at 15 US an hour not fookin bad btw) and have saved up enough to go on a tour round Vietnam before teaching again. Bear in mind im only 18 like, had to save up a F*** load for the flight out here.

Anyway im in this town called Hue right, so you know do the standard and get completely slaughtered at this wicked bar which was giving us loads of free drinks all night, we (other people on tour) start talking to these chicks right who seem well up for a laugh and pretty cool. So next day is the last day in the town like and go and see them play a gig (they'r a band from the Phillipenes), and you know there damn talented. Have a good time like, got chatting to one of them who seemed really cool and pretty good looking to, so I have a bit of fun and then went home in the wee hours. Now this bird is F****** 27 and there's no F****** way im passing up the chance to bang a bird that age. So i decided to stay another day, big mistake. Met her in the day, sat by the river, had a little fun and im thinking this is all good. She seems well on me and seems alright herself if a bit insecure, I'm playing this bird like a fiddle and the thing is she's actually sucking it all in, its like a drug the power i seem to have over here.

So meet up with her this eveining at their gig and she's like "Im too tired for Brown Eyes (the bar) can we just go to your place" so i'm thinking "This is too F****** easy, I'm in heaven". So you know go to the hotel, have a F****** awesome shag, its all good.

Then it started to get really freaky, she started telling me how much she truly loved me (She hasn't drunk a drop of booze all day bear in mind) and how i should stay here and live with her and how we can have kinds and how not to go travellin. I'm thinking WTF is going on here, is she a headcase or something. She started like clinging on too me and begging me not leave and S*** and I continued to pawn her off with lies and excuses (admittedly damn well told) like I'd been the whole time since i met here. It took all the persuasive power i had to actually convince her to get out of my hotel while still thinking that I actually liked her and that i was going to come back too see her.

This bitch is F****** crazy. I have to do a runner in the morning before the blokes from the band come looking for me and F****** castrate me, they knew exactly what i was doing from the start.

The Only reason i am posting this on here is cause i need somewhere to vent this crazy story and seen as its 3:30 am and I'm here on my own this is the only place i could think of.

She really was F****** crazy

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You teach without a university major?! Sounds very suspicious to me, you shouldnt even be over there teaching! Anyways as the forum ESL'er thats that little rant over!

You need to learn how to deal with honesty, not going with random women in strange countries (been there and done it believe me!) ;D and by getting your little head in order there. You brought your situation on yourself.

Hope this helps!

I hope you were joking (hope this helps?). You say "you've been there". Give the guy a lifeline!

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Originally Posted by 1-hit Wonder

This is a completely random rant about this absolutely crazy bitch i met which has completely freaked me out. Needs a bit of back story first.

Basically i have been teaching English in Vietnam for 3 months (at 15 US an hour not fookin bad btw) and have saved up enough to go on a tour round Vietnam before teaching again. Bear in mind im only 18 like, had to save up a F*** load for the flight out here.

Anyway im in this town called Hue right, so you know do the standard and get completely slaughtered at this wicked bar which was giving us loads of free drinks all night, we (other people on tour) start talking to these chicks right who seem well up for a laugh and pretty cool. So next day is the last day in the town like and go and see them play a gig (they'r a band from the Phillipenes), and you know there damn talented. Have a good time like, got chatting to one of them who seemed really cool and pretty good looking to, so I have a bit of fun and then went home in the wee hours. Now this bird is F****** 27 and there's no F****** way im passing up the chance to bang a bird that age. So i decided to stay another day, big mistake. Met her in the day, sat by the river, had a little fun and im thinking this is all good. She seems well on me and seems alright herself if a bit insecure, I'm playing this bird like a fiddle and the thing is she's actually sucking it all in, its like a drug the power i seem to have over here.

So meet up with her this eveining at their gig and she's like "Im too tired for Brown Eyes (the bar) can we just go to your place" so i'm thinking "This is too F****** easy, I'm in heaven". So you know go to the hotel, have a F****** awesome shag, its all good.

Then it started to get really freaky, she started telling me how much she truly loved me (She hasn't drunk a drop of booze all day bear in mind) and how i should stay here and live with her and how we can have kinds and how not to go travellin. I'm thinking WTF is going on here, is she a headcase or something. She started like clinging on too me and begging me not leave and S*** and I continued to pawn her off with lies and excuses (admittedly damn well told) like I'd been the whole time since i met here. It took all the persuasive power i had to actually convince her to get out of my hotel while still thinking that I actually liked her and that i was going to come back too see her.

This bitch is F****** crazy. I have to do a runner in the morning before the blokes from the band come looking for me and F****** castrate me, they knew exactly what i was doing from the start.

The Only reason i am posting this on here is cause i need somewhere to vent this crazy story and seen as its 3:30 am and I'm here on my own this is the only place i could think of.

She really was F****** crazy

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send her to me in vegas................ ill get her a job cocktail waitressing where i will take 80% of her tips as some kind of agent fee and sure enough, shell have more money than she ever thought was possible and do a complete 180 and become the most independant chick possible while torching guys bank accounts

You are an evil man. the vegas girls have me broke STILL from Hattons fight. Ha ha ha.

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I hope you were joking (hope this helps?). You say "you've been there". Give the guy a lifeline!

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someone that plays with someone else's emotions like that doesn't deserve a lifeline ;)

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I hope you were joking (hope this helps?). You say "you've been there". Give the guy a lifeline!

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When I say Ive been in different countries doing things I shouldnt, that much is true. But Ive never found the need to lie and talk bullshit to do that. This guy deserves all the trouble he has brought on himself. He has no lifeline really, he's in a different country with a different culture and with no self awareness nor empathy. Completely out of his depth. Let him suffer!! >:mad ;D

I was indeed being extremely ironic when I said "Hope this helps!" :)

DUDE...all these 3rd world slags will do ANYTHING! to come home with you (or ANYONE ELSE) and get away from the shithole they come from.
I was in russia for 2 years. the cunts there would suck your dogs cock and kill your wife with a hammer if they though they could come and live with you in california or london or any other F****** place,
other than "whore all my daughters Cambodia"
or "women are worthless pigs iran"
or "we have no shoes or running water India"
or wherever teh f3ck you were plowing this dirty slag is from.
DIG DUDE?
she's probably a $5 whore who makes change! wipe her off the bottom of your shoe like dog sh1t.
Best bet. Save your cock for real women you actually care about, at least a little. F*** some muckhole in Asia?? I'd rather stick my cock in a blender!

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DUDE...all these 3rd world slags will do ANYTHING! to come home with you (or ANYONE ELSE) and get away from the shithole they come from.
I was in russia for 2 years. the cunts there would suck your dogs cock and kill your wife with a hammer if they though they could come and live with you in california or london or any other F****** place,
other than "whore all my daughters Cambodia"
or "women are worthless pigs iran"
or "we have no shoes or running water India"
or wherever teh f3ck you were plowing this dirty slag is from.
DIG DUDE?
she's probably a $5 whore who makes change! wipe her off the bottom of your shoe like dog sh1t.
Best bet. Save your cock for real women you actually care about, at least a little. F*** some muckhole in Asia?? I'd rather stick my cock in a blender!

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A bunch of ignorant and horrible generalisations there....

















































Have fun with the blender!! :) ::**

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DUDE...all these 3rd world slags will do ANYTHING! to come home with you (or ANYONE ELSE) and get away from the shithole they come from.
I was in russia for 2 years. the cunts there would suck your dogs cock and kill your wife with a hammer if they though they could come and live with you in california or london or any other F****** place,
other than "whore all my daughters Cambodia"
or "women are worthless pigs iran"
or "we have no shoes or running water India"
or wherever teh f3ck you were plowing this dirty slag is from.
DIG DUDE?
she's probably a $5 whore who makes change! wipe her off the bottom of your shoe like dog sh1t.
Best bet. Save your cock for real women you actually care about, at least a little. F*** some muckhole in Asia?? I'd rather stick my cock in a blender!

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Valuev would be so disappointed if he heard you talk about the mother country like that.

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Originally Posted by landmine950

DUDE...all these 3rd world slags will do ANYTHING! to come home with you (or ANYONE ELSE) and get away from the shithole they come from.
I was in russia for 2 years. the cunts there would suck your dogs cock and kill your wife with a hammer if they though they could come and live with you in california or london or any other F****** place,
other than "whore all my daughters Cambodia"
or "women are worthless pigs iran"
or "we have no shoes or running water India"
or wherever teh f3ck you were plowing this dirty slag is from.
DIG DUDE?
she's probably a $5 whore who makes change! wipe her off the bottom of your shoe like dog sh1t.
Best bet. Save your cock for real women you actually care about, at least a little. F*** some muckhole in Asia?? I'd rather stick my cock in a blender!

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....and might I add, Landmine is a dirty Canadian.....he's no Southern Gentleman like myself ;D

Well a lot of different responses there, to be honest i wrote that under a bit of crazy hysteria so i'd like to clarify a few things.

Firstly she is not just some cheap girl who'd want to come and live with me and all that shite. She signs in a band and stays in the 4 star hotel where they play a 3 hour gig every night. Ive been there seen them so i know this 100%. She spoke excellent English and was obviously pretty educated cus she knew a fair bit about quite a few things. Obviously gets paid a fair bit too cus she was drinking cocktails all night (twice) and never mentioned spending too much once. She was definately not some cheap ass girl

When i first met here i actually really liked here, she was outgoing witty a lot of fun and everything i said was pretty honest with a couple of white lies that everyone makes (those shoes look nice ect...). Then she became really insecure and needed reasurence about EVERYTHING. When a girls doing that and you still like her then its pretty hard not to say a couple of half truths and a few downright lies. Then it becomes kind of intoxicating to have that much influence over someone. In the end im not really sure whether she fell for the real me or the one I projected. To be honest i am only 18 and damn she was 27 was what was keeping me going near the end. I mean come on if you were that age thats some good bragging rights right there. Whether it was worth it .... probably not actually.

All that faithfullness stuff and saving it for someone you actually care about : Been there, done that, got the T-Shirt, got cheated on ..... twice, been dumped for an ex and finally had my family insulted. So im not particularly keen on going down that road anytime soon, I'd like to find a stable girlfriend and all that shite and the last two lasted a fair bit and were getting serious, but they always end up treating you like crap in the end.

Miles your right it SHOULD be hard to teach without a uni degree, thats what i was told but i did it anyway because people on the TEFL course told me otherwise. I think Vietnam is a real up and coming country but is in desperate need of native English speakers and doesn't have anywhere near the amount that Thailand for example does. Of the 4 other people who worked at the same place only 1 actually had a degree.

3 days later i have no idea why the hell i started this thread its all chilled, had a talk with her, sorted it out (mostly) and feel like a bit of a pussy .... oh well nothin i can do now ;D

Cheers for the comments and critisim CC"s all round for helping in my hour of self imposed need ::**

Actually, I was being a bit harsh there anyway. If there is a demand for teachers and not enough qualified teachers to do the job then they've got to get what they can I suppose. Does Thailand have a lot of native instructors? Ive never been to Thailand, and would never consider working in most South East Asian countries. The money just isnt good enough.

I live and work in Korea and the conditions are somewhat stricter regarding illegal teaching. Many illegal workers are deported every month. Usually for not having VISA's or being caught doing private lessons. Strangely most of them herald from Canada. :-\

You are right, Vietnam is developing but is still some way from being what I would class as a developed nation. Incomes are too low over there to atract a great deal of qualified teachers. Much like China. Much of that should change over the coming decade as they seek more business English. What kind of school are you working at?

Oh and :coolclick:

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Actually, I was being a bit harsh there anyway. If there is a demand for teachers and not enough qualified teachers to do the job then they've got to get what they can I suppose. Does Thailand have a lot of native instructors? Ive never been to Thailand, and would never consider working in most South East Asian countries. The money just isnt good enough.

I live and work in Korea and the conditions are somewhat stricter regarding illegal teaching. Many illegal workers are deported every month. Usually for not having VISA's or being caught doing private lessons. Strangely most of them herald from Canada. :-\

You are right, Vietnam is developing but is still some way from being what I would class as a developed nation. Incomes are too low over there to atract a great deal of qualified teachers. Much like China. Much of that should change over the coming decade as they seek more business English. What kind of school are you working at?

Oh and :coolclick:

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Wow you work in Korea, I'm really not surprised about all the people getting deported and the lark over there. Its a really developed place, more so than most Western countries. I would never dream of working there unless i had a job set up over there and the chances of that are slim to none without a degree.

You pretty much hit the nail on the head with with the lack of qualified teachers and that over here, that's why its so easy to get a job. It was quite funny actually, I went to go talk to the school and they asked me how old i was, i said 18 (Look more like 21 really). She looked a bit shocked as all Easterners do when i tell them that but then she regained her composure. She said "So your 25 then are you" I was saying no im 18 and she cut me off and said "So your 25 yes". Went along with it and got the job. This was at a private school as well for gods sake, it was a primary school for kids aged 5-11 and was pretty well stocked. All i had to do was one demonstration lesson (which didn't even go that well as i was crapping myself) and i got the job. Amazingly easy only 4 days after I arrived.

A lot more English speakers go to Thailand as they see it as more "Western" but that wasn't really what i was looking for. Know what you mean about the money, not sure how old you are but if your living in Korea and settled down then SEA and for you really. For me however i was earning a whopping $15 US an hour which is more than earn at fucking home. Doing 25 hours a week, paying $150 a month in accommodation in a house me and other teachers rent, and thats a hell of a lot of money for someone my age and a really great life compared to back home. You'd be surprised you know, Vietnam is really up and coming and in 15 years i'd really expect it to be near the level of Korea. Some stuff needs work on like the roads and stuff but this place is a lot lot more developed than i expected it to be especially in the city's.

I would give you a CC but I gotta wait 24 hours, cheers for the interest :coolclick:

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Actually, I was being a bit harsh there anyway. If there is a demand for teachers and not enough qualified teachers to do the job then they've got to get what they can I suppose. Does Thailand have a lot of native instructors? Ive never been to Thailand, and would never consider working in most South East Asian countries. The money just isnt good enough.

I live and work in Korea and the conditions are somewhat stricter regarding illegal teaching. Many illegal workers are deported every month. Usually for not having VISA's or being caught doing private lessons. Strangely most of them herald from Canada. :-\

You are right, Vietnam is developing but is still some way from being what I would class as a developed nation. Incomes are too low over there to atract a great deal of qualified teachers. Much like China. Much of that should change over the coming decade as they seek more business English. What kind of school are you working at?

Oh and :coolclick:

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Wow you work in Korea, I'm really not surprised about all the people getting deported and the lark over there. Its a really developed place, more so than most Western countries. I would never dream of working there unless i had a job set up over there and the chances of that are slim to none without a degree.

You pretty much hit the nail on the head with with the lack of qualified teachers and that over here, that's why its so easy to get a job. It was quite funny actually, I went to go talk to the school and they asked me how old i was, i said 18 (Look more like 21 really). She looked a bit shocked as all Easterners do when i tell them that but then she regained her composure. She said "So your 25 then are you" I was saying no im 18 and she cut me off and said "So your 25 yes". Went along with it and got the job. This was at a private school as well for gods sake, it was a primary school for kids aged 5-11 and was pretty well stocked. All i had to do was one demonstration lesson (which didn't even go that well as i was crapping myself) and i got the job. Amazingly easy only 4 days after I arrived.

A lot more English speakers go to Thailand as they see it as more "Western" but that wasn't really what i was looking for. Know what you mean about the money, not sure how old you are but if your living in Korea and settled down then SEA and for you really. For me however i was earning a whopping $15 US an hour which is more than earn at F****** home. Doing 25 hours a week, paying $150 a month in accommodation in a house me and other teachers rent, and thats a hell of a lot of money for someone my age and a really great life compared to back home. You'd be surprised you know, Vietnam is really up and coming and in 15 years i'd really expect it to be near the level of Korea. Some stuff needs work on like the roads and stuff but this place is a lot lot more developed than i expected it to be especially in the city's.

I would give you a CC but I gotta wait 24 hours, cheers for the interest :coolclick:

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An interesting post, pal. Sounds like you are having a very interesting time. If you are really into the teaching I do really recommend getting qualified. It would really help you for the future and for teaching in other countries If that is something you would like to do also. Like you say, Vietnam will grow in the future and therefore will incomes and then other qualified teachers will come. You need to stay ahead of that development. Even I am just finishing my Masters in an online course in TESL at Birmingham University. There is always room for learning. If you are only in it for the short term then dont worry about any of that and just enjoy your ride.

Yep, been in Korea now for a good while. My 5th year began in September. Its been an interesting journey with its ups and downs as ive managed to work out how to get the system to work to my advantage. I really like life out here now, things are going very nicely. Korea is a very good place to live for me. Costs of living are low, rents are cheap. Nice place to save money and still enjoy your quality of life. People in the west have the perception that Korea is still an economically undeveloped place, but that is far from the truth. Seoul is as modern as a capital city can be. Korea is the place where Ive finally grown up. Got settled here, got married here and plan on sticking around for many a year more! Im the ripe old age of 27 BTW.

I wouldnt mind seeing Vietnam on one of my travels actually. Done the Japan trip 3 times, been to the Philipines, wouldnt mind checking out more of South East Asia though.