How many of you hug? Your kids, partner, parents and friends? It is good and positive and we should all do it more. You will live longer and happier. Try it. Do it. It feels great.
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How many of you hug? Your kids, partner, parents and friends? It is good and positive and we should all do it more. You will live longer and happier. Try it. Do it. It feels great.
up there with the gayest threads ever
You need the biggest hug of all. I am not sure that I could do that for you, anyone else offering?
This is seriously something i've been thinking of, and sometimes i ask myself if i'm the only one.
All my friends hug their moms, kiss their friends, saying good bye with hugs,
I never had that relationship to my parents, i'm still great friends with them and we get along really good but, there's is no hugging and such. Well sure when i said goodbye to girlfriends and stuff, but parents not really! And i found this a bit sad, and now i think it's to late to just hug them.
It must be a Swedish thing? Never too late.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xwetie
Saying that I do not hug my dad, just a manly handshake.
But my mum, kids and wife all the time.
No swedish thing, just me! feels weird and yes i will not take the first step!Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterIt must be a Swedish thing? Never too late.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xwetie
Saying that I do not hug my dad, just a manly handshake.
But my mum, kids and wife all the time.
Same here, a manly handshake but really rarely!
Aiight i see, well a lot of people doin that!
you have a wife and kids ? And you're an idiot ??Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterIt must be a Swedish thing? Never too late.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xwetie
Saying that I do not hug my dad, just a manly handshake.
But my mum, kids and wife all the time.
This place has never been short on huggers...especially on a big fight night involving Manny or Mayweather
OK I will hug you if it means you will be nice to everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark TKOyou have a wife and kids ? And you're an idiot ??Quote:
Originally Posted by MasterIt must be a Swedish thing? Never too late.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xwetie
Saying that I do not hug my dad, just a manly handshake.
But my mum, kids and wife all the time.
stick your hug up your arse
Can you stick a hug your arse?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark TKO
I don't know ask Bilbo he put a small forest up his :-XQuote:
Originally Posted by MasterCan you stick a hug your arse?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mark TKO
Why do you post so much here if you have a wife and family Master.... clearly you have nothing to be hugging them over.
*I may just be a bitter cunt who needs a hug
This kinda remind me of my early relationships ;) might changeing the topic though but just got me thinking, i'm pretty cold hearted when it comes to this hugging and stuff.
Was probably in the first or second grade, we went on a school trip, and this girl bought a candy lollipop to me, really big one that looked like a heart and it said I Love You on it, she probably spend her month salary on that lollipop, it was pretty expensive i recon! she was really into me.... Anyways, i broke this in two, and gave it to my best friend, and we ate it all, and she cried the whole bus trip back home, and i couldn't understand why back then....
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p4p, I think you are just generally miserable which is why I like you so much. I do try to hug my wife. She lives a much more healthy than me and I'm sure she will out live me but life is fragile and we never know when the end will comeQuote:
Originally Posted by p4pking
Try and imagine what it will be like when the closest person to you are not there anymore because one day that is exactly what will happen to one or the other, none of us get out of this one alive.
Dont leave anything un said or un done that will just hurt more.
Agreed, that is what I do hug them and just be glad as I may not have that opportunity later.
Hugs all round chaps in a manly way, yes chaps I always get a hug off my 5 year old granddaughter
I love here to bits, it's good for my soul.:)
ITS A VICIOUS CYCLE THOUGH, REALLY. yoU HUG THE HELL OUT OF YOUR LOVED ONES ONE DAY AND YOU SAY "ok, IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS THEN i KNOW i HUGGED THE HELL OUT OF THEM TODAY, SO IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS (whoops, CAPS) then I did enough of the hugging today.
But then the very next day you are fucked again, as "something bad and unexpected can happen that day too, and the next and then next and the next"
so the point is, if you hugged the hell out of them every day for 8 days and on the 9th day something bad happens, are you still gonna say "Oh fuck if I had only hugged them and told themn I loved them today!!!!"
In a way you CANNOT LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH THIS KIND OF PARANOID FEAR OF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENING BEFORE YOU SAID YOU LOVED THAT PERSON.
Do you think if we distanced ourselves from our loved ones it would lessen the pain when tragedy came along or would we just feel more like prices. I mean in the long wrong it may serve us better Not to hug each other and live cold, callous lifes
No it would not, that is the dumbest post you have ever written. What is life without love and hugging? Nothing.Quote:
Originally Posted by walrus
I often think this way too. All this warm and emotional hugging and stroking and in the end when the person"dies" or whatever happens, there was nothing you couldve done to stop it anyway, nothing you couldve said that would have prevented it, nothing no hug no kiss no embrace no warm words that that person would speed their way to the next world (if there is one), what were those last hugs going to do anyway? We already KNOW we love each other, we say it often enough and hug often enough that I think it is already understood. It always sounds so desperately urgent to hug and kiss and tell each other we love each other before that "final moment" takes place, so desperate and sad, I know this, I know this, but always anticipating that moment, when we don't know when it will arrive, always putting that pressure on ourselves about "Have we told each other we love each other today?? Have we hugged each other enough today, in case something happens in the next hour?" Its so sad but its so ridiculous too. What a fucked up life we have to live and go thru with this shit, I have no answers.Quote:
Originally Posted by walrus
You hug on certain occasions to show your affection. It feels right and you will remember that moment in your heart and will cherish it when you can not live that time again.
I used to give my small nephew and niece big hugs and kisses quite routinely and though they were products of a broken home who used to live with the family - grandparents and us all - they grew up to be normal, no sign of deprivation, and so I'm always glad that did.
And they shower me with gifts too once in awhile...