can someone please explain how exactly this forum works ,ie,anything that a new member would need to know,were does the boxing glove come from and hows some got more on than others, whats the ratings thing all about?the little purple monster on the board,i dont understand just quite how all these fit in.....last night a man passed me a complement and says wecome to saddo ect and i thought this fellas calling me sad or whatever and it turned out to be the name of this site and embarasingly i gave him dogs abuse to which i appoligised and i thought i need more understanding of this site befour i give oppinions or make my own subject