Relationships revolve around women

[Chino]

Have you guys thought about it. I am not saying its good or bad but just an observation. When it comes to relationships you'll have a guy approach a girl, bust a few lines, get her some drinks, beg for her phone number, be after her, finally get a date after tryin and trying, take her to dinners, events (movies, theater, concert, show, museum, etc.), wine, shopping, flowers, jewelry, stuffed animals, etc. Guy has to totally romance her. Later on propose and buy her an engagement ring (at least 2 to 3 months worth of his salary), give a speech to both families asking for her hand and showing he's the right guy to take care of her, and then comes the wedding where ironically after all he did for her ends up being just a piece of accesory of the bride making it look like a Quinceañera or Sweet 16.......It just doesn't make sense to me.

A relationship involves two. Shouldn't things revolve around BOTH?