Yeah, it is true, old-schoolers were tuffer, old-school was:
"Pushing the limits of human endurance."
The Greek phrase, "The exercise of the full use of your powers along lines of excellence."
Hemingway's "grace under pressure."

Nowadays, it's:
"Stress and how to Cope With It"
"Nurturing Your Inner Child."
"It's Not Your Fault: A Guide for Men On Learning to Forgive Yourself."

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