Quote Originally Posted by Andre View Post
Dont think you should marry under false pretenses.
So if you marry her and take the sacred oath, what if she gets in an accident and her looks are gone what then?What of your kids ? The whole family unit does it all suffer cause you are shallow? Women all grow old too,your brain and eyes will stay at 20 year old male level like we all do.
I take it from another thread you are a player when shes away? I recon you are better off having a discussion with her right from the start. If you play the field and muck her around behind her back dont get married,why get married? Why swear on your life about something you cant deliver?

Unless by agreement she knows you want to be a player for ever. She may want to as well,its only fair. Just think the two of you can become swingers and go around fucking everyone else who thinks the same as you do.

If shes innocent of all that stuff, leave her alone, cause it wont last and you dont care enough about her only yourself and that is not love.
I can't disagree with you. Ive been thinking alot lately about what love is and Im not sure what to think anymore. What is love anyways? Ive been with quite a few girls and I dont thinkive ever truly loved any of them.. All the girls i got with because they were either real hot or had a style , personality I never thought much of.. Am I just a shallow person?

I want to settle down and i really would love to have genuiwine feelings for a girl but it's not happening..

My current girl.. Im not sure if im in love with her looks or if I really love her for who she is.. I dont know Andre..