I find that in life I attract different types of people based on my honesty and openness in my approach to building these specific relationships. This is not only about romantic relationships, but it extends into business, and general friendships.

The times in my life when I looked for instant gratification and I was not honest with myself and the other person I ended up mingling with some very negative women or business partners. Because in a way those women and business partners were looking for the same thing just from a different perspective. So I fall into the school of thought that thinks you attract what you are at that very specific moment. Reality is really what you make it.

So with that in mind. Do I think he is a rapist? I doubt it. But he got what he attracted somehow. Nothing happens by chance.