I think the problem is tone.
If you and I were talking on the street and you said "Fuck you Donny" but I was there beside you to see you were smiling whilst you said it there would be no problem.
Over a forum, you could type "Fuck you Donny" and I might take ofence, because it's there in cold hard print with no suggestion of humour you know?

And I don't know why you're saying smaller or newer, you're a bonafide Saddo's main stay at this stage Julius.