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[Sharla]

wow she just called and wants to meet up with me. I told her I can not, we can no see eachother any more. she said she just wants to make some things clear. I told her ok. I will meet up with her just to talk. I ask her over the phone about her pregnancy comment. she was just silent for a few second and said we will talk about it just meet her.

I'll keep my friends updated, except amat . I will not post here what happens next. I will just pm. anybody who is still interested in my problem let me know. I know Im saddo's number 1 out in the open guy. To be honest I am because this is like my second home. I know I will never meet any of you guys in real life. That does not matter to me, i use this forum to let off steam. I understand people can be judgemental. but i come here to escape my real life sometimes. I have friends but I really only talk about this here. this is the only place i can talk about anything.

She was silent cuz there ain't nothing to say. She ain't fukking pregnant.

your so fucking right







Shes not pregnant, i just spoke with her. She said she thought she was took some pregnancy test a few times but it turned out negative. She wanted to though, I told her shes rediculous then i just walked away. she gave me a hug ask me to be with her but I said Im sorry. I did enough wrongs I have to go.

note to self:

no more ,,,,and with other women. its not worth it. thee wife is boring but I love that girl. Now I gotta figure out how im gonna confess. Its funny cause this morning she made a joke of being pregnant. Maybe Julius Marvelous Rain will be a father after all

This is waaaay yo convenient!

She's not pregnant but your wife is??!?!

If it's true you're very lucky - not suddenly a better person.

It really wouldn't suprise me at all if you'd just concocted that so everytime you mention how hard it is to be a father etc etc people don't jump on your arse for it!

I think you did knock her up and now you're just going to pretend your kid is to your wife.

If she did lie then lucky you and good on her!

I'd never justify a woman lieing about being pregnant normally but she wasn't your girlfriend or your wife - just a bit of meat on the side you decided to screw out of spite for your wife so it's not like you had any respect for her anyway.

Stress can delay a woman's period too. If you were messing with her head and she was upset by your 'break up' she could have easily gotten a scare. She should be more picky herself so that's good too.

As for you Bilbo - don't even begin to accuse everyone else of being high and mighty when you target Julius's wife in all this!

You blame her for a 'loveless' marriage and back up Julius in his victim to his bossy wife story when if you look at what we know it really doesn't add up.

1) She's the bread winner - she's not using him for money.

2) She married him a virgin and would never cheat according to Julius himself.

3) Her major crime according to Julius is wanting to spend time with him when he apparently wants more time alone but he has enough time to screw other women so could easily be spending that time showing her some affection.

Anyway since Fing when is it a crime to want to spend time with your husband?!?!?! Aren't you supposed to like the people you marry?!?!?!

4) When put on the spot here Julius has plenty of arguementative tactics - just about everything except for giving in:

• The sympathy ploy - boo hoo shit,
• the fuck off rant,
• the excuses,
• Just dumb persistance.

There is no way it makes sense that Julius is easily pushed around at home and isn't difficult to live with himself!

5) Julius hates his wife and cheats on her and there's no way she doesn't pick up on those vibes yet she's still with him

To me all the evidence points to her loving him way too much and you have no right to sit on your high and mighty throne and blame this on a loveless marriage and tell us we're all judgemental and expect us to eat it all up when you're pinning this on the wife who can't even defend herself!

I've said it before, reconsidered but now I'm sure you are full of shit Baggins!