Relationships may evolve around women if you allow them too, but they neednt have to. There
is always the choice of chasing men if you are so inclined.

I was a stud back in the day. Women were certainly seldom shy about approaching me. In fact I dont think I ever made a concious move to pull a woman. I was just too shy for that lark. Bars are great places to meet really god awful women!

As for relationships, well, I never really had any relationships with those women. Bilbo's worm analogy is pretty good. You wouldnt want to get saddled down with one of them.
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