My last post was more of a joke. I guess wining and dining lets a girl know you think enough of her to go the extra nine yards
CGM,
Sure, but I also want to know she is willing to go the extra nine yards and just accepting to have me take her out and feed her, rub my arm, or sending me a happy face on a text message won't do it. For that, I have my relatives' children I can take out to the movies, to eat, buy them toys, etc.

Myself I was lucky that most of my girlfriends didn't come with high expectations for deluxe treatment
Good to hear that mate! The ones I have felt the most balance/equality so far are Asian girls (not westernized), specially Japanese.

Okay Chino here is where what your trying to say gets confusing.. #1, if you're just trying to bang a girl, you may have to take her to dinner, pay for a few things to get the job done.. that's one situation...
RP33,
Which is prostitution no matter what . Maybe prostitution in a higher scale or something . "I give you something to eat in a fancy place and you give me sex" kind of deal.

but if you're talking about someone who you're dating and you're looking to marry and you STILL feel burdened by these things that need to be done then you need to find another woman...You shouldn't be worried about all of those tasks that you explained if you're with someone you want to be with
Good points . But to find a woman who is willing to have the relationship revolve around both of us, I am not sure if it will be easy to find. We'll see.