Relationships revolve around women

[Kev]

but if you're talking about someone who you're dating and you're looking to marry and you STILL feel burdened by these things that need to be done then you need to find another woman...You shouldn't be worried about all of those tasks that you explained if you're with someone you want to be with

Good points . But to find a woman who is willing to have the relationship revolve around both of us, I am not sure if it will be easy to find. We'll see.[/quote]

I think your problem is that you seem to see a girlfriend as someone your trying to be with just so she will have sex with you.

Sex has very little to do with a relationship I find. Once I've been with a girl for a few weeks/months the thrill of sex with them has long since died and you're concentrating on building a life together (actually on trying to hold your ground over what few basic freedoms you have left, the longer a relationship lasts the more of them she takes away)

I'm not saying you don't have sex any more, but it certainly doesn't define the relationship beyond a few months.

If all you want is sex just go to the clubs and bars at the weekend. You don't need to pay them anything, today's modern women are sluts and hoes, at least a large percentage are.

If you are having to take a girl to dinner in order to hope that they sleep with you sorry to say you are just being played.

It kind of sounds to me though that you are just extremely shallow (nothing wrong with that really) and want to skip out on the part where you actually get to know each other and just get down to boning the shit out of them. Most girls at least like to know it's them that you like, and not just the fact that they have some holes you want to fill.

Just consider the dates and meals as building comfort with her. She wants to know your intentions are more than just sex and that you're going to stick around after she's given herself up to you.