Some stuff I had to get off my chest.

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Congrats Amat.

You know, I feel you a lot because I have a deeply fractured family as well, except that the fracture originates from my asshole of a father. He did stole a couple of grants to me, my bro and my 2 cousins, the son and daughter of his brother who's dead now, best guy on earth, who did everything for my father, including shelling 40K to put on our house at some point and buying him a Grand Cherokee. He destroyed my Mom's self esteem which I took years to build back and never helped for my handicap brother since his accident pretending he did everything and that my mom wasn't doing "that much' with him.
One thing I can tell you: Do not let anger consumes you. I've been angry at my dad way too long, it consumed my energy a lot, now I am over with it, he's millionaire and will die alone for I don't give a flying F. The second best advice I can tell you is to stack at least 2/3 of the money remaining and place it somewhere, do not spend it, I know way too many peoples (including my dead uncle) who had money beyond limits and did spend it all because they didn't realize that money is fast gone when you're on the ride. This nice little home is perfect, nearby a lake, perfect for some quietude, not too far from your center of interests, I am happy for you.