Also, whenever she is feeling "down" she wants me to stop whatever I have planned for the evening (hunting my hounds) and comfort her on the phone.
Last night I was going hunting and her sister disappointed her, I told her I would talk to her later but I had plans to go hunting with a buddy. I also told her to do some work on an art project she has and she would feel better. She has been under alot of stress lately.
This hunt took much longer than I thought it would--but she knows the nature of the sport.
Now she is also pissy about that, and I am unapologetic as well. I am not sorry my buddy and I had a great hunt and it took longer than expected.

She said that if something was really bothering me she would have stayed home and talked to me about it. Which I do not doubt. THE difference is she is bothered by something on a weekly basis and I might be upset about something once a month (probably much less)..........and almost always if I am upset it is because of her.

She feels I am not supportive enough. I do realize I am writing these two posts with an inherent bias towards rationalizing my own actions but I do get tired of feeling like I am apologizing about stuff and I feel all in all that I am a good partner and committed.