The best ref is the one you never see for the most part. True. Nothing wrong with being assertive and maintaining but guys like Cortez have serious needy issues. I'm hard pressed to think of anything more self centered and just bullshit than a ref with "Now remember guys I'M fair but I'M firm" Ref should never make it about himself before the frigging bell even rings.

It is good to remember the bad ones though, just like judges.