Marrying a woman mostly for her looks

[smashup]

you have some serious thinking here in multiple threads
what r u up to?

Im going through some shit right now bruh and i need to make a choice.

I used to date this girl who was introduced by my mother . This girl is my mom's best friend's daughter and our family planned our marriage since childhood. She's well educated, classy, comes from a great background, she can cook real well and has great personality but there isn't much going for her lookewise.. That's the main reason why i stopped seeing her in the first place. What a shallow asshole right.

Well my current girl is on vacation right now outer country so ive been hanging out with my ex again.. With this girl, I just feel real comfortable and I know for a fact that being with her will benefit my future, career wise and everything, but I just dont feel anything sexual with her.. I believe sexual chemistry is a huge factor in a relationship and I just dont get that from her..

My current girl though, she's the exact type of girl I painted in my head as a teenager.. She's 9 years younger than me, has a flawless body, perfect breasts/ass, face and the whole nine.. She's the kind of girl that every guy stares at when we are walking together.. But the downside is that she's emotionally/materialistically high mainteance and kind of conceited. She doesn't have much going for her career wise and she comes from a dysfuntional family.. Her main asset is her looks and she knows it. PUssy is so good but she drains me mentally and makes me lose focus..

I feel greedy . I want it all but i know it's not possible.. Super hot girls lack in alot of areas but the below average one has everything else going for her... IT aint fair man..

What do you think?

Been in that situation a few times.. absolute stunner of a gf.
9 times out of 10 girls like that are nasty pieces of work and after one thing.

Your money ;-)

[Howlin Mad Missy]

it's clear you're not ready for marriage, don't do it just to have someone there, that's not fair to her at all and not to you

[VictorCharlie]

Marriage is a partnership. Obviously physical attraction is important but when you are going through the trials and tribulations that every couple does you won't be concerned with how perky her tits are but does she make you laugh and when things go south can you depend on her. I second Missy, you are in no way ready to get married.

Oh and VD is pure fucking genius! I got to figure out how I've been missing out on the hot 19 yr old neighbor's blow jobs though.

[SugarBoxing]

it's clear you're not ready for marriage, don't do it just to have someone there, that's not fair to her at all and not to you

agree here. I think marriage for the topic starter is a selfish move to secure the ownership of the girl only for himself, which comes from the inner insecurity that one day she will dump him

[birch]

From my experience it doesn't matter how good looking a girl is, if there is nothing there but sex, after about 6 months to a year you will get bored of the same pussy.

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and was seeing other girls at the same time, had an fling at the office, but always come back to her because there is something more than just the sexual attraction. She makes me laugh like no one else can which I think is really important. I never thought that she was the best looking girl but I wouldn't change her for anything now and find her more attractive than anyone else.

I have just found out I'm gonna be a father to her child and I couldn't be happier.

So my advice is stick with someone who you can build a full well rounded relationship with rather than just someone you want to fuck. And if that fails join a swinging club.

[Spicoli]

Try all that and be satisfied with a steady relationship first. It sounds like dwelling on marriage right now may be putting the cart before the horse. I don't think anyone should get married in hopes of finding security be it financial or mental. Get secure in yourself first...women don't want insecure dudes. At least half of everyone I know on a daily basis is divorced, some a couple of times. Or are "stuck" as they say which I think is bullshit. Looks fade, age comes, substance is revealed regardless if you are ready or not when you get beyond a prepared package or presentation. I worry about people who want to be seen saying something rather than heard first. Things can be overlooked in someone if you 'care' about them enough so its not a uniformed question, one size does not fit all.

[VictorCharlie]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

[Xwetie]

You have to get a girl who you can take out without be ashamed of. spend a few grand on her, so nice dresses, nice heels. haircut, new boobs, whatever that's looks good. she have to look good from the beginning tho. working with a decent one is just to much work.

[Master]

It will never work out mate, I give it 18 months tops.

[Fenster]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

[VictorCharlie]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

I believe he was originally in O&G and got caught in an oil bust in the 80s. The second time I think involved an unhealthy gambling addiction and nasty divorce. Either way he was the kind of guy scripted by movie writers.

[SugarBoxing]

Working construction as a young man afforded me some great life lessons. I once worked with this old salty electrician that had been a millionaire twice and lost it all. He once told me (in your best gravely southern draw) "VC, the best pussy in the world is a lot like a much needed hot shower, once you've been in it a while it just aint that hot anymore. Now quit belly aching about your highschool girlfriend and get back to work you sorry bitch." Wiser words may have never been spoken.

How had he twice blown "millions?"

Same way Tyson blew half a billion

[Beanz]

I agree all women are goddesses, it's just that some look like Lakshmi and others look like Ganesh.

[brocktonblockbust]

I agree all women are goddesses, it's just that some look like Lakshmi and others look like Ganesh.

[brocktonblockbust]

forget the stunner forget the hottie. they are full of shit. remember that. they focus on their looks and looking great just to get guys like you who value that above so many other things. dont be a sucker. any girl can put on makeup and the right clothes and look just as hot as any other girl.. They are human beings, they are not dolls to be get all dressed up to please your eye. If you marry for looks you will be divorced in 3 years.

Buy the "plain jane" some clothes that you think are "hot" if you need "hot" so much, buy her some "hot" clothes, then you will get all worked up looking at her. If that's what important. I tell you ALL women are beautiful, every single one fo them, all women are God's gift to this world, its the men that are the fucking scumbags, the ones who go for goodlooking girls and skip the mediocre ones. There are no mediocre ones. There are no inferior ones. They are all beautiful. Problem with most men is that they dont realize this until they are like 40 years old. All women are goddesses. ALL.