ITS A VICIOUS CYCLE THOUGH, REALLY. yoU HUG THE HELL OUT OF YOUR LOVED ONES ONE DAY AND YOU SAY "ok, IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS THEN i KNOW i HUGGED THE HELL OUT OF THEM TODAY, SO IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS (whoops, CAPS) then I did enough of the hugging today.

But then the very next day you are fucked again, as "something bad and unexpected can happen that day too, and the next and then next and the next"

so the point is, if you hugged the hell out of them every day for 8 days and on the 9th day something bad happens, are you still gonna say "Oh fuck if I had only hugged them and told themn I loved them today!!!!"

In a way you CANNOT LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH THIS KIND OF PARANOID FEAR OF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENING BEFORE YOU SAID YOU LOVED THAT PERSON.