Quote Originally Posted by BoxingGorilla
Not sure when this was posted. The post times are always crazy for me.


I always wanted a woman with no children. That way if we had a child together the experience would be new to us both. Same for marriage. I thought I had found that person. We were married for two years and she got bored and split. Oh, I was bitter.

I am now with a woman who has a 15 year old son that I cannot stand. I had dated her a bit in the past and decided to move on. Now, she lives with me and considers us "married."

The woman I have loved the most are the ones that didn't want me. Weird how that works out...

Anyway, my advice is... be sure you're not just lonley. Sometimes when are lonley you start urning for something confortable from your past. If the things she has done in her past truly bother you than they probably always will. Also, for me persoanlly the fact that she is a bartender would drive me bonkers. I would steer clear of her no matter how much I loved her. Even if she isn't cheating you won't be able to stop thinking that she is. And if she is than she will say your just being paranoid.
First thing you should do is clean up your act and stay single for an extended period of time. DO NOT DATE. Save money, educate your mind, take it easy. Then when you are in a good frame of mind start fresh with someone you have no history with and take it slow...
Thanks Gorilla!! I am not lonely and never have had a shortage of woman in my life.....I have gone thru times were I stayed alone and single so I could fortify my being and do things for me I want to be happy for myself not cause someone makes me happy, They can enhance my happiness but shouldnt be the bases of it cause when there gone so is the happiness, you have to be comfortable in your own skin, if you are not then what do you really have to bring to the table come relationship time......I can be happy single or happy with someone I am comfortable doing either one