hey yo Justin Timberlake Rock,
this is my advice to you bro. whenever you start out as friends it could be a GREAT thang or a very drama thang. cuz u tend to know all the down low details of each other etc as friends first. now some of us can deal with the past more better than others. ive come to realize the more finer the girl, the more complicated the past especially if she had her younger wild stages. personally i never hook up with females who are in the "friend zone" just as chris rock states. When i first meet a chick i either put them into the friend zone category, or the friends with benefits category or the this could be the one category. so far unfortunately due to my sky high standards ive never really been able to place any girls in the last category yet. but more importantly bro you, yourself need to handle yo sh*t and do ya thang! keep ya priorities focused and your goals focused(career, education, financial stability, future etc). then once you have all that locked down the girls will come automatically. i mean how many other guys do u know who are 27 yrs old and already own hotels/casinos/restaraunts? exactly i wouldnt be here where im at today if i let some wack drama girl cock block my goals from becoming reality. I really just give girls one chance to prove them selves to me if they seem too much drama, psycho or annoying i never call them EVER AGAIN! i travel alot for business i go to conferences/conventions/meetings/events all over the west coast. so i have like 3 times the likelihood of meeting new chicks and decent chicks with careers and futures ahahha. so my advice to you is to travel get out more. dont only focus on the local neighborhood. go on some vacations if you can. im 27 these are my last prime years of clocking fine honeys i know this is how i should be rocking it. now back to your girls situation if you truly feel in your heart that she is indeed the one than just be up front and REAL with her. tell straight up from your heart that this is what you feel. write a letter if your not good at talking in person. whats important is not what she responds to what u have to say, but the fact that you actually had the chance to say what you had to say and thats REAL TALK yo!