I might be getting mature because ive been thinking deeply about this lately.. ive been living with the girl of my dreams (appearance wise) for the past few years but there are so much BS that comes with the territory that I failed to see before but its been getting more clear now.. btw, i dont mean to talk shit about my girl. I just wanna vent a little..
First, my girl is much younger than i am and she is extremely hot, like Jessica Gomez hot, the kind of hot that all guys would nod their heads and agree with.. but I realize nobody is perfect and everything comes with a price. She is immature which I understand considering how young she is, but she's spoiled, doesnt like to cook, cares too much about her looks, and more importantly she spends too much money.. my money.. and i think to myself when will she mature and see eye to eye with me, can I spend the rest of my life with this girl? Based on all the older couples ive seen, I really think a woman is so crucial to a man's life as they can either make or break a man, financially and in many other ways..
I have an older friend who is very successful in his career and at home and of all the advises he gave me, the one that sticks out to me the most is when he said something along the lines of, " you can fuck all the bad bitches you want, but, settle down with the plain Jane with a good personality and save yourself the extra trouble ."..
I couldnt relate to it at first because im the type that want the best of everything but more and more im starting to think that's right.. I know this may be a no brainer to you older guys but im still struggling
To come to terms with what's best for me..
Do you think there are extremely hot girls out there with a great balance of everything ? Plane janes with great personality is the real deal for marriage?
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