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    "And my teachers would get so mad when they talked to me because I would look down - that's very respectful in Afghanistan. They'd say, "Look me in the eye when I talk to you!" There were a lot of cultural misunderstandings.

    I cut and pasted the section above from the BBC article. As you can see Brock, teachers would get angry with this poor, little disabled kid. Obviously he is from a different culture, but he also could have been very shy or possibly even had asperger's syndrome or even a combination of things. He certainly must have had a lot of trauma from what he had experienced in Afghanistan. You don't teach children by using violence. As a teacher and especially one who teaches people from different cultures, you should have some understanding of who they are and why they might behave in the manner they do. To shout at a kid like that because he struggles to look at you indicates a lack of understanding and awareness.

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    That's absolutely awesome. Great for him. The body will give but much harder to stop will and imagination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gandalf View Post
    "And my teachers would get so mad when they talked to me because I would look down - that's very respectful in Afghanistan. They'd say, "Look me in the eye when I talk to you!" There were a lot of cultural misunderstandings.

    I cut and pasted the section above from the BBC article. As you can see Brock, teachers would get angry with this poor, little disabled kid. Obviously he is from a different culture, but he also could have been very shy or possibly even had asperger's syndrome or even a combination of things. He certainly must have had a lot of trauma from what he had experienced in Afghanistan. You don't teach children by using violence. As a teacher and especially one who teaches people from different cultures, you should have some understanding of who they are and why they might behave in the manner they do. To shout at a kid like that because he struggles to look at you indicates a lack of understanding and awareness.
    i espouse as I said above the cajoling, nuancing, gentle approach to helping him understand how to amalgamate his shyness/Asperger's/PTSD possibilities with assimilating into a new culture. Shouting and violence NEVER.

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    Can you imagine getting angry at a traumatised little chap in a wheelchair just because he won't look you in the eye? Your comment that "he should learn to make eye contact with everybody in society since that is the way we do it here" is somewhat akin to how I imagine one of the teachers speaking. "Fit in with our culture, boy. This is America. Look me in the eye! It's how we do it here". He's a kid, let him adapt on his own terms.

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    This why Miles is a good teacher and Brock is not.
    Do not let success go to your head and do not let failure get to your heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gandalf View Post
    Can you imagine getting angry at a traumatised little chap in a wheelchair just because he won't look you in the eye? Your comment that "he should learn to make eye contact with everybody in society since that is the way we do it here" is somewhat akin to how I imagine one of the teachers speaking. "Fit in with our culture, boy. This is America. Look me in the eye! It's how we do it here". He's a kid, let him adapt on his own terms.
    You need to teach him self esteem. Good eye contact is important for job interviews. Teach him right make him look you in the eyes.

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    He's 12 years old Walrus. Job interviews are probably quite some time away. Plus he invented wheelchair man. It will be a film before too long.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gandalf View Post
    He's 12 years old Walrus. Job interviews are probably quite some time away. Plus he invented wheelchair man. It will be a film before too long.
    What better time to gain self awareness and confidence. If you don't straighten him out he will be triggered by a post on a forum at the age of thirty. Help the poor kid if he is not looking you in the eyes he is lost and it will be your fault if he has a miserable life. The FOG will have him relying on the government

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    Bwahahaha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by walrus View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Gandalf View Post
    Can you imagine getting angry at a traumatised little chap in a wheelchair just because he won't look you in the eye? Your comment that "he should learn to make eye contact with everybody in society since that is the way we do it here" is somewhat akin to how I imagine one of the teachers speaking. "Fit in with our culture, boy. This is America. Look me in the eye! It's how we do it here". He's a kid, let him adapt on his own terms.
    You need to teach him self esteem. Good eye contact is important for job interviews. Teach him right make him look you in the eyes.
    This is why dear Banda is an excellent parole officer and master is not

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    Default Re: Wheelchair man - The New Afghan Superhero

    Is his arch enemy - Semtex Man ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dark Lord Al View Post
    Is his arch enemy - Semtex Man ?
    Idk ask Gandeanz

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