This policing of language is something I would disregard openly and publicly.

I can think of at least one word I wouldn't pronounce that links back to a dark past (unintended pun), and that's the one that rhymes with "trigger"

Hate speech is clearly an exception too, as it is defined as speech that calls for violence.

Hate speech is not defined as something that people simply disagree with. Policing language because of disagreements in beliefs people chose to hold is simply a form of control for the sake of it.