I guess it boils down to me hating to see children wayward, lost, abandoned, stifled and harmed. It is not absolute of course and there are many exceptions but the facts are what they are and I simply think people should either take parenting seriously or don't do it at all. If we cannot even accept that single mother rates are a leading cause of poverty in the community then there can be no progress. I want better for kids and it starts with responsible parenting. If you are a bit mad like me then don't do it!