How many are you fighting with without me here, Beano? I don't post for months at a time. You have the issues with control. I can vanish anytime and will. You need the conflict. You NEED it so bad. Enjoy if that is how you get your buzz, but don't make excuses for poor judgment all the time.

It is awful to not plan being a parent well. The consequences are horrendous and all on the two who did not use their brains very well. It needs to happpen less as it is the kindest thing to do.

Robert Smith from The Cure has it right. Didn't think he was responsible enough and resented being born himself. Thus you son't do it. Not that hard to avoid messing up a kid. For welfare, to keep men, to....

Too dark. Gandmiles is not exactly a disguise and has been in operation for 8 years. He will leave quietly.

Bye. Do carry on. The new blood love the conflict.