@Beanz all excellent insights and observations there. He tries to apply a Band-Aid to deeply complex issues, which leads people to poo-poo the idea that humans can have emotional/psychiatric issues which they cannot simply "solve" by "snapping out of it" or "having agency" -- which is all just wishful thinking and oversimplification. And they then demonize those who disagree as being "lazy" for not being able to get their lives together. They lump together the worst lazy people with those who genuinely suffer from previous abuse or neglect, saying "get over it! Get out there and succeed!", and when you try to teach them a little bit about how it just doesn't work that way, they say you are a misanthrope in that you are underestimating peoples' ability to "snap out of" their illnesses. To these people, nobody has any excuses except those who are physiologically impaired. They completely and sophomorically dismiss and poo-poo all the hard-core facts about disorders like Dissociative Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, crippling Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders, Tourettic OCD, and how those are plenty enough to stop people from really succeeding in life no matter how hard they try. It is a cold, unfeeling, unfair, almost fascistic way of seeing people, but disguised by a phony mask of "having hope and faith in the power of people to just snap out of these things". Very shallow.