Quick huddle: She's coming over, what to do?

[ykdadamaja]

I should have listened to @Master

Here is what happened today. She messaged me to tell me to come and pick up these bananas. I told her I had to come that way anyway to the car parts store across the street and when I was done I would message her that I was coming over and to meet me outside.

Well, as I was exiting the car part store from doing my business, up pulls up one of her guy friends, walks over to her house... I called her, she didn't answer or respond to a text. I left... don't play with me woman. I'm no poppy show. 15 minutes later I got a phone call, didn't pick it up because I was on the road..and after that I got a text telling me she was waiting on me and she had to leave and that the bananas were with some folks out front.

I told her, why is it that me and this other guy friend of your are meeting at your place at the same time? Either he has a free pass, or you intentionally invited both of us at the same time. I told her I don't play games and please I prefer if we not message each other anymore.

Should have listened to Master. Life is too short for this shit. It truly is. I have met the guy before... he is innocent enough, a deaf/hearing impaired guy... she said she just wanted to learn sign language and it is the only way to learn properly is with someone. But he is too close and clingy... She introduced him to me before, but my thing is if you are looking to have a serious relationship with someone all of that friendship shit with other men needs to cut out. Grow up, Miss... grow up!

[Mark TKO]

Cease all contact now. Do it.

But on a more serious note. What happened to the ripe mangoes??

[Master]

All the fruit analogies are sexual innuendo's.

[ykdadamaja]

All the fruit analogies are sexual innuendo's.

What are you on about?

[Master]

All the fruit analogies are sexual innuendo's.

What are you on about?

All these posts are code, ripe mangoes, banana's in exchange, extremely sweet, love eating them. It is clear as day what people are on about.

[ykdadamaja]

All the fruit analogies are sexual innuendo's.

What are you on about?

All these posts are code, ripe mangoes, banana's in exchange, extremely sweet, love eating them. It is clear as day what people are on about.

LOL... They were not actually. I was serious. This was about real mangoes and real bananas. I shit you not. Island life, what can you say about it?!

[Beanz]

All the fruit analogies are sexual innuendo's.

Juicy plump mangoes and firm bananas? Surely not

[Spicoli]

I can’t believe I went with a semi serious answer on this initially . Though the part about the ex bringing bananas was some tempting low hanging fruit.

[ykdadamaja]

I can’t believe I went with a semi serious answer on this initially . Though the part about the ex bringing bananas was some tempting low hanging fruit.

You are laughing at my confusion and pain. I told her if she wastes my time like that then I prefer her not message me anymore. Then she promptly blocked me on social media.

I wonder how long that will last? I give her a month, because it was done in haste and will end up like how when I deleted her from social media and had to add her back so she could see my GLORIOUS life without her. I'm talking about hobbies, going out a lot, going to the gym, the weight loss and toning up the muscles and all of trips ALL WITHOUT HER. Not even another woman, just living my life as a grown man should.

Take my word: All single woman without a child or children are either narcissistic or borderline narcissist. Self absorbed, selfish little creatures they are. It's always all about them and never any accountability. It just all depends on the time she gets the motherly urge to breed and want children... Then after the first child they turn all soft and mushy and caring and considerate. Most of them do. All of this bullshit and shit testing and whorish nonsense tends to stop when you find out your son or daughter has to live through the same shit you did and put their father through... Then you want better for them, when you were no better yourself.

Life...

[Spicoli]

I can’t believe I went with a semi serious answer on this initially . Though the part about the ex bringing bananas was some tempting low hanging fruit.

You are laughing at my confusion and pain. I told her if she wastes my time like that then I prefer her not message me anymore. Then she promptly blocked me on social media.

I wonder how long that will last? I give her a month, because it was done in haste and will end up like how when I deleted her from social media and had to add her back so she could see my GLORIOUS life without her. I'm talking about hobbies, going out a lot, going to the gym, the weight loss and toning up the muscles and all of trips ALL WITHOUT HER. Not even another woman, just living my life as a grown man should.

Take my word: All single woman without a child or children are either narcissistic or borderline narcissist. Self absorbed, selfish little creatures they are. It's always all about them and never any accountability. It just all depends on the time she gets the motherly urge to breed and want children... Then after the first child they turn all soft and mushy and caring and considerate. Most of them do. All of this bullshit and shit testing and whorish nonsense tends to stop when you find out your son or daughter has to live through the same shit you did and put their father through... Then you want better for them, when you were no better yourself.

Life...

Ah no worries mate I know the confusion. Last thing I should be doing is giving relationship advice, the last couple I got involved with stemmed from School reunions and messing around trying to rekindle decades old flames . Don't care what they say dating gets much harder the older ya get. But sounds like you stepped up and delivered the message and she obliged. Let her drift and don't put a stopwatch on when she'll turn around. Probably for the best no matter how good her bananas are.

[ykdadamaja]

Cease all contact now. Do it.

But on a more serious note. What happened to the ripe mangoes??

LOL... another friend is coming for them today. Can't let them go to waste. Plus, I am eating more than my fair share.