Quick huddle: She's coming over, what to do?

[Spicoli]

I can’t believe I went with a semi serious answer on this initially . Though the part about the ex bringing bananas was some tempting low hanging fruit.

You are laughing at my confusion and pain. I told her if she wastes my time like that then I prefer her not message me anymore. Then she promptly blocked me on social media.

I wonder how long that will last? I give her a month, because it was done in haste and will end up like how when I deleted her from social media and had to add her back so she could see my GLORIOUS life without her. I'm talking about hobbies, going out a lot, going to the gym, the weight loss and toning up the muscles and all of trips ALL WITHOUT HER. Not even another woman, just living my life as a grown man should.

Take my word: All single woman without a child or children are either narcissistic or borderline narcissist. Self absorbed, selfish little creatures they are. It's always all about them and never any accountability. It just all depends on the time she gets the motherly urge to breed and want children... Then after the first child they turn all soft and mushy and caring and considerate. Most of them do. All of this bullshit and shit testing and whorish nonsense tends to stop when you find out your son or daughter has to live through the same shit you did and put their father through... Then you want better for them, when you were no better yourself.

Life...

Ah no worries mate I know the confusion. Last thing I should be doing is giving relationship advice, the last couple I got involved with stemmed from School reunions and messing around trying to rekindle decades old flames . Don't care what they say dating gets much harder the older ya get. But sounds like you stepped up and delivered the message and she obliged. Let her drift and don't put a stopwatch on when she'll turn around. Probably for the best no matter how good her bananas are.

[ykdadamaja]

I can’t believe I went with a semi serious answer on this initially . Though the part about the ex bringing bananas was some tempting low hanging fruit.

You are laughing at my confusion and pain. I told her if she wastes my time like that then I prefer her not message me anymore. Then she promptly blocked me on social media.

I wonder how long that will last? I give her a month, because it was done in haste and will end up like how when I deleted her from social media and had to add her back so she could see my GLORIOUS life without her. I'm talking about hobbies, going out a lot, going to the gym, the weight loss and toning up the muscles and all of trips ALL WITHOUT HER. Not even another woman, just living my life as a grown man should.

Take my word: All single woman without a child or children are either narcissistic or borderline narcissist. Self absorbed, selfish little creatures they are. It's always all about them and never any accountability. It just all depends on the time she gets the motherly urge to breed and want children... Then after the first child they turn all soft and mushy and caring and considerate. Most of them do. All of this bullshit and shit testing and whorish nonsense tends to stop when you find out your son or daughter has to live through the same shit you did and put their father through... Then you want better for them, when you were no better yourself.

Life...

Ah no worries mate I know the confusion. Last thing I should be doing is giving relationship advice, the last couple I got involved with stemmed from School reunions and messing around trying to rekindle decades old flames . Don't care what they say dating gets much harder the older ya get. But sounds like you stepped up and delivered the message and she obliged. Let her drift and don't put a stopwatch on when she'll turn around. Probably for the best no matter how good her bananas are.

Yea. Fuck them bananas.