Yeah man, what Mick said... thing is (I hate to generalize but) a lot of the ladies around south east Asia can latch on to you as quick as you can say snap. My friend had an experience like you... it is a different game over there if you're just looking for a 1 nighter. If you lie to them and start making them think you love them, they WILL believe you and will not pass the opportunity up too easily either. Fact is, for a lot of them... guys like you are their ticket to a better life in the Western World.