Quote Originally Posted by Memphis
Sorry to hear about that mate, didnt you mention this before?

From a financial point of view you might want to go the route of mediation. Mediation is still means tested like the time of a solicitor but it might prove quicker than the legal system and work out a solution that suits you both.

Dont be fooled into thinking that you have to do as she says, that isnt true. You've every right that she does (your married right?)

It might pay to get yourslef to a solicitor sooner rather than later. It pays to be clued up on thse things it really does. Lots of them do a half an hour for free so take advantage of it.

Hope it works out for you mate.
Thats very sound advice...

Im sorry for your situation, Porkypara, and I really hope you manage to work things out somehow...