Yikes! what is going on!? HELP!

[TheBESTP4P]

also if you want another opinion....... theres an american shock jock named Tom Leychus(spelling?) he basically gives advice to fuckin losers who have no clue and who get used and abused by women. i personally dont listen to his show or him, but he does have some rather good points. id say what i do know of him i agree with what his theorys/rules are about 30-45% of the time. I basically i agree with what he says about 40% of the time.

Some of his rules are:
1) do not date girls with kids
2)do not get into a serious relationship until the age of 29(finish school, work, career established etc etc)
3)ALWAYS USE A CONDOM every single fukkkin time!
4)do not spend over $50 on a date
5)do not date a girl more than 3 times if she doesnt give u any play by the 3rd date dump her
6) do not bring girls back to your house

there were some more rules he had that i agree with but those were the ones that stuck out in my mind. i havent even heard him for like year i wonder if hes still alive even ahahha.

[AdamGB]

Cheers brothers, CCs all round :P

Thanks P4P! Thanks for bigging me up! I know it all but it's nice to hear it from someone else! :P

One thing though, we're still together for now... reading back my post... a bit confusing like, didn't make it clear. but what I meant is that we agreed to break up when she goes away rather than try and have a long distance relationship... this is before we even went out properly... got half a week together and then it's good bye...

I'm gonna move on... it's just hard! What's harder is not trying to act too close to her cos the last thing I want is her going away to do her stuff she's had planned for years and feel guilty about it.
As you say there's more out there but I never connected with anyone like this before... I'll get over it though!

Also anyone else noticed that you seem to get more attention off women when you're going out with one than when you're not... what do you reckon that's all about? :P you look more secure or you just notice what you're missing? All I know is a girl I used to REALLY like for a while but never seemed to be able to get with decides to start showing a little more interest in me once I can't touch her!? Jesus! :P

I like some of those rules P4P 1-4 are SOLID 5... not too sure, depends... 6? is this indefinitely or after first meeting them or what?

[AdamGB]

Come to think of it never been so uncomfortable... watched the contender with this lass... really nice girl... ended up sitting very cosy and just chatting rather than watching the boxing really... was late and we'd both has BUSY weeks so aye... just chilled out, tried to hold my hand a few times on the way out and then after we'd showed our faces at the VIP party she gave me a lift home...

Normally I'd hug her or something and say bye... she's my mate but I dunno... I wasn't going near it! :P maybe I'm flattering myself but I didn't want nothing to happen... maybe it wasn't going to and I just imagined it but we both seemed uncomfortable.

Sounds like nothing but I can't really write down/sum up all the signs I was getting etc...

I dunno... when I'm ready to move on I might see if she was ever/is still interested

Nothings easy or simple is it...

[TheBESTP4P]

Cheers brothers, CCs all round :P

Thanks P4P! Thanks for bigging me up! I know it all but it's nice to hear it from someone else! :P

One thing though, we're still together for now... reading back my post... a bit confusing like, didn't make it clear. but what I meant is that we agreed to break up when she goes away rather than try and have a long distance relationship... this is before we even went out properly... got half a week together and then it's good bye...

I'm gonna move on... it's just hard! What's harder is not trying to act too close to her cos the last thing I want is her going away to do her stuff she's had planned for years and feel guilty about it.
As you say there's more out there but I never connected with anyone like this before... I'll get over it though!

Also anyone else noticed that you seem to get more attention off women when you're going out with one than when you're not... what do you reckon that's all about? :P you look more secure or you just notice what you're missing? All I know is a girl I used to REALLY like for a while but never seemed to be able to get with decides to start showing a little more interest in me once I can't touch her!? Jesus! :P

I like some of those rules P4P 1-4 are SOLID 5... not too sure, depends... 6? is this indefinitely or after first meeting them or what?

yeah bro i agree rule 5 depends on the girl. i mean if shes worthy than shes worthy, but if you are just seeing her as some one to hang with thats cool and who u wanna bone than thats a different story. i think his reasoning behind that is that he doesnt want women conrtolling men and making them spend shitloads of money on them just to get laid. i guess thats the point he was making?

obviously if the girls a keeper u kinda want her to wait longer before she puts out i totally agree

[TheBESTP4P]

rule 6 i think his logic there was more so if u dont even know if this girls a keeper or not u dont want her knowing where u live so she cant stalk u or cock block u later i suppose

[jbirdy]

adam if its got tits or wheels it will only cause you grief mate. thats the advise of my late grandad rest his soul. but i hear ya bud about needing to move on and that cos i cant see it working if its a long distance thing. and your both to young for that shite anyways. but then again if it could be love then why not try to hold on to it ha some help i was ay

[TheBESTP4P]

Cheers brothers, CCs all round :P

Thanks P4P! Thanks for bigging me up! I know it all but it's nice to hear it from someone else! :P

One thing though, we're still together for now... reading back my post... a bit confusing like, didn't make it clear. but what I meant is that we agreed to break up when she goes away rather than try and have a long distance relationship... this is before we even went out properly... got half a week together and then it's good bye...

I'm gonna move on... it's just hard! What's harder is not trying to act too close to her cos the last thing I want is her going away to do her stuff she's had planned for years and feel guilty about it.
As you say there's more out there but I never connected with anyone like this before... I'll get over it though!

Also anyone else noticed that you seem to get more attention off women when you're going out with one than when you're not... what do you reckon that's all about? :P you look more secure or you just notice what you're missing? All I know is a girl I used to REALLY like for a while but never seemed to be able to get with decides to start showing a little more interest in me once I can't touch her!? Jesus! :P

I like some of those rules P4P 1-4 are SOLID 5... not too sure, depends... 6? is this indefinitely or after first meeting them or what?

yeah bro i was talking about this the other day on another thread. but i was at this big huge music festival and i was mackin hard to this BOMB ASSS canadian chick with 34dd's son. so out of no where this austrailian chick just starts mackin to me while im about to close the deal with the canadian chick. im like wtf cant she let me close the deal first before she hollars at me? wtf is up with that?

also whenever i go shopping or to the grocery with a chick thats when the HOTTEST chicks at the store be jockin hella hard and just scoping right at u not even caring that u notice them looking right at u.

i suggest going out with FEMALE friends who dont cock block!

[AdamGB]

I'm gonna move on like... but right now... all I can think about is her being with some one else.

Makes me so angry that I actually shake! I bet I'm OK in a week though... :P

[bigragu]

wow....I think you are a bit delusional Bro.....you said yourself she's leaving and you know for a fact "You'll inevitably cheat" on each other....enjoy your time together...as for the smoking thing..as long as it's just social, when she drinks< that's cool....Hell, you're in a friggin bar!!!!!! Can't be to concerned with your health if your sucking down like 300 peoples smoke for 4-5 hours a night when you go out....remember, your body is not hers...it's her choice...if you don't like it and she doesn't want to change..find someone that fits your style/likes....

[TheBESTP4P]

I'm gonna move on like... but right now... all I can think about is her being with some one else.

Makes me so angry that I actually shake! I bet I'm OK in a week though... :P

seriously bro REread all my posts in this thread again until something really sinks in k bro

[Swashbuckling Gordy]

AdamGB you sound like a really intelligent lad and whilst my ramblings resemble the inner thoughts of a man with a fruit Salad for a mind i have been in your postion many a time !!

All i can say is this how you feel today is not how you are gonna feel tomorrow !

I fall in Love everyday probably because I'm a shallow thick bastard and all i can say is enjoy being 20, Shag other birds follow your impulses and instincts because theres nothing worse than being nearly 30 and not having anything to regret !!!

These are the rules i live and die by .

For the 1st 3 months .

Don't tell her you love her
Don't spend silly money on them
Do admit you fancy other birds
Don't complent them to much
Never turn up on time
Don't go out with her any of her brothers or other family members socially
Fuck sake remember her name
DON'T GO ON HOLIDAY WITH THEM
Take them on Picnics to a local beauty spot (keep the costs down Cocktail sausages scotch eggs ,dirt cheap Lemonade)
Never ever take them to fancy restaurants ( i always take them for a burger)
Don't let them near your phone put a lock on it even if you have nothing to hide .
Make them fetch you a cup of tea .
Take them to the football once and never again even if they enjoy it
Say nothing after sex its hard but thats when you're vulnerable
Let them go to Clubs on their own
Don't meet her parents unless you have too
Don't take any ultimatums these are the death knell to your manhood
Pay for her Burger on the 1st date
Take them to the Cinema and but don't buy any goodies
Don't pretend to be intrested in what she's saying if you are not
I have something i like to call Gordy's quiet time and it works
Fuck Sake keep Wanking ,backed up Spunk makes you do all kinds of stupid things

All this ensures you have boundaries clearly defined and besides relationships are either meant to work or there not so don't go chasing something that ain't there .

When a Woman says i love you it don't mean shit because what she really means is - at this present time i am feeling a degree of comfort in your presence .

My ex declared her undying love for me one night and the next night dumped me at her birthday party i was gutted but it was because i left myself open and didn't follow the unbreakable rules.

I was even more gutted because there was a cycle race next to her house so i couldn't get a lift home and had to walk 10 miles to just fetch a cab .

[Howlin Mad Missy]

I'm sorry adam it's over. There will be others.

$50 might be a lot when you're young or don't have much cash but that works out at about £13.50 pp you cheap bastard.

Nice to see you'd be willing to spend 99p on a burger for them, ignore them, turn up late, which is fine if you want a doormat for a woman who over time you will only resent for being a doormat. Loser.

[AdamGB]

50 dollars is more like 25 quid isn't it?

[TheBESTP4P]

50 dollars is more like 25 quid isn't it?

my ignorant american asss doesnt know the conversion SORRY

[TheBESTP4P]

i have to admit tho 50bucks doesnt go that far in america these days. i mean say u take a girl out to eat even at like some cheezy average spot like olive garden. we talking easily i dont know $35 for appetizer, drinks, main course, desert then you go to the movies thats another like 20 bones there! damn u cant even go on a cheezy date for less than $50 anymore these days?

unless u take her to like burger king and make it a blockbuster night