i'm not talking about you posting that stuff here, im talking about you think this person magical understands you better than anyone else. When most people say ?they get me" that means they can talk to them about w/e and im saying if you're messed up about this person because they look good and you can talk to them, just hire a shrink. If you wanna kill 2 birds with one stone, hire a hot female shrink that takes "doctor-patient confidentiality" to a whole new level.