Quote Originally Posted by Bilbo
Hey bro I feel exactly the same way. Since having cancer 7 years ago I've become one of the most unsociable guys you could ever meet. My mates still text me virtually weekend to go out but it is now accepted that I will only leave the house when I absolutely have to, i.e stag night, once a year holiday, best mates birthday etc.

Last year I didn't even go to my own birthday party! My mates booked a booze cruise and all went out in my honour, as for me I switched off the phone and stayed in bed watching a dvd!

Thing is I love my friends and all but I just prefer to be on my own most of the time. Not been able to work due to illness since 1999 has turned me into a virtual recluse.

But still a happy recluse nonetheless :P
best wishes man