Alot of it is control
I have quite a bit,matter of fact there are at least two guys who's teeth would be only usable as maraca fillers if I didnt,for being a little forward with my wife.
But Im a professional,and you need to be in the buisness,and hell,they didnt get anywhere.
Weve almost got it centered in to what round things allways go south with the pair of us,if we never spar past round two,its all good.
We had to talk about that quite a bit,but we figured out,its allways the 3rd when all hell breaks loose with us.