Quote Originally Posted by Andre
Oh crap , self punishment can come along with grief in males more,
alot of men dont know how to cry or thats its ok or they are aloud to share pain and they bottle it up.
Andre is dead on,self flaggelation is a very male thing
We're built to think we can fix everything,and when we cant,especially with above average abilities,the train wreck happens
Im really sorry for your friend,but most above average intelligence people end up like that,theres also a frustration with other people level you have to consider,a "Jesus Christ do I have to right you people a map!!!!!!!!" factor